Is this waswasa????
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Topic: Is this waswasa????
Posted By: Peacock123
Subject: Is this waswasa????
Date Posted: 19 March 2014 at 12:35pm
| Salaam, im a 20 year old girl. I have a big problem. I feel that i am impure and in state of janabah all the time. Ex: when i think/see something sexual i feel this feeling in my private and discharge comes out. Ex: after praying in my sitting position my leg presses on my private, i feel this feeling and discharge comes out. In all situations i tell myslef i have entered state of janabah and must do ghusl, but another part tells me i am over reacting and im not in janabat. I feel impure all the time. This is so frustrating becuase i love to pray to Allah (swt) but these are keeping me away from Him!!! i even get doubts in wudhu,ghusl (water reaching everywhere) and in namaz. Is shaitaan trying to trick me into thinking that im impure and must perform ghusl, so life will be tough on me, or is it me denying and trying to avoid doing ghusl. I dont know/confused if i have entered janabat and if ghusl is wajib on me or not. Again i love praying and this is taking me away from Allah swt. I dont want to waste water and do unnessary ghusl. I dont want to meet Allah swt and he is mad that i listened to shaitaan. I just dont know which voice belongs to shaitaan, the one that tells me to do ghusl or the one that says to avoid it. Im confused/dont know if im confused, in doubt or denying that im in janaabah!! This happens to me everyday :( Is this shaittaan, and should i ignore all of this? What should i do?????? i have posted this problem in different sites but I'm not getting a proper answer :( |
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Posted By: Rofexa
Date Posted: 20 March 2014 at 7:04pm
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Assalaamu Alaikum,
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger. Allah Almighty knows best, but these links may help you in your quest. "O you who believe, when you rise to observe the Salat, you shall wash your faces and your arms to the elbows, and wipe your heads and your feet to the ankles." 5:6 This link is for The Purpose of Wudu (Ablution) http://www.quran-islam.org/articles/the_purpose_of_wudu_(P1154).html This link is specifically pertaining to women and vaginal discharge and wudu http://spa.qibla.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=4409&CATE=102 Wa Alaikumu Salaam, Your sister in Islam ''When the world pushes you to your knees you�re in the perfect position to pray'' ~ Rumi |
Posted By: hotfritoes
Date Posted: 12 October 2021 at 1:40pm
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Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu sister I hope you are well. I am suffering the same issue, did you ever receive an answer and can advise me? Jazaakum Allah khairan
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Posted By: the_truth
Date Posted: 08 April 2022 at 9:56pm
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How to overcome Waswas (Shaythans whispers) in worship Bismillahirahmaniraheem Waswas can become a very serious issue and it may take away the pleasure in worship and instead replace it with constant worry whether a person did Wudu or Salaah properly. It can become a very serious issue as a person will feel overwhelmed by paranoia with regards to theri worship and will always feel a sense of inadequacy. In worship terms Waswas means always have doubts about ones worship and not be sure of anything relating to worship as there is always a doubt there and this serious disease and illness is caused by shaythan. What are some of the symptoms of waswas? -You pray and then be not sure if you did. - You waste too much water and long time in wudu and ghusl. - You pray more than the number of rakats and do the sahu sujud every time. Even you pray more than once. - you are not sure if your clothes are clean and every moment change your clothes. - You follow the tiny things that are not even seen by eyes to clean them and remove them. - You worry too much and feel your worship is not complete. - You ask strange questions that people feel amazed about and show strange behavior for example: someone walks with shoes on the carpet until the spot where she prays just because she is not sure if the land is clean. - You spend a very long time in the bathroom, just washing. - You are not sure of any worship you did is complete. And many other strange things that can tell you are suffering form waswas. Waswas can become a serious problem especially if a person suffers from it constantly. Shaythan keeps putting doubts in ones mind and keeps telling the person that their prayer or wudu ghusl etc are not valid and that you have missed something out or not done it proprly and so you should do it again. Your clothes are not clean, wash them again and so on. The person keeps falling for this and by this time shaythan knows that this has become the persons weakness so shaythan is able to attack the person in many different angles. Eventually shaythan will go onto more serious matters of faith until he tries to convince a person that "Are you sure Allah exists"? Or shaythan tries to cast doubts in the mind of a person by convincing them that they had shirk thoughts and so they must do the shahada again because they have now become a kaafir and are out of the fold of Islam. Here are some real stories of people having waswas problem: A woman said: For 16 years, I everyday have shower and take shahada because I suddenly feel I am not sure, I am Muslim. A guy said: For years I pray and think I did not until I stopped praying at all. A woman said: I used to pray the prayer and keep repeating it until the next prayer. The best way's to resolve Extreme cases of waswas are: 1. Waswas can occur with pretty much any practising Muslim particularly if they do not have sufficient knowledge of Islam and matters pertaining to fiqhi rulings. They care so much about wanting to worship right and please Allah and get so worried whether their deed has been accepted or not by Allah but the fact is they just do not know enough about Islam especially fiqhi matters. So it is VERY important to learn about Fiqh and various other aspects of Islam. Knowledge is key to eradicating this problem from your life! Join some fiqh classes face to face or online. Learn about other important aspects of Islam to. keep learning, learning and learning and you watch how these evil thoughts dissapear inshallah. 2. JUST IGNORE shaythans whispers. He will keep telling you your worship is incorrect or you have missed out something in your salaah then you must NOT repeat the Salaah again. When you have done Wudu and something tells you that you have missed out something or have not done it properly then IGNORE those whispers. If shaythan tells you to do ghusl again because you never did it properly then IGNORE and NEVER obey these evil and deceptive whispers! If shaythan tries to tell you that you have attributed partners with Allah and that you have done shirk then IGNORE IT. He wants you to lose your faith and think that you have committed blasphemy when you have not done anything of the sort. if the mind wanders sometimes then that is fine all of our minds wander. Sayyiduna Abu Haraira (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that once a group of people came to the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) and asked: “We experience such evil thoughts that it is impossible to bring them on our lips”. The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Do you really experience these thoughts? Yes, they replied. The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “They are clear signs of faith”. (Sahih Muslim). So these are signs of faith and ultimately, we are not held to account for these thoughts. However, we will be held to account if we act on these thoughts. Shaythan will then try to make you think that you did act on these feelings when all you did was involuntarily wandered about them in your mind. Even if they did linger in your mind it does not mean you acted on it. Almost all of us have random thoughts and absurdities going on in our minds all of the time it does not mean we necesserily believe what we thought of. Do NOT ever give in to these thoughts for shaythan is just trying to be clever but knowledge will give on the upper hand! Whenever you get these whispers then just think: IT IS SHAYTHAN TRYING TO DECIEVE ME AND PUT ME OFF MY WORSHIP! 3. Once you have completed Wudu then move on and ignore whatever shaythan tells you regardless of how serious it sounds. You have completed it and there is no need to think of it anymore. Once you have completed your Salaah then move on and continue with the next one or get on with whatever you are doing with your day or evening. Do not think about it and ignore any thoughts associated with the worship you have just done. Whatever you have completed is done and is over and there is NOTHING more you can do about it so do not think back that you could have done this or that or whether you need to repeat it etc. These doubts will not affect the prayer or wudu etc which you have completed so disregard and reject the whispers that tell you otherwise. These are all tricks of shaythan and you need to realise what his angles are. You need to play him at his own game and that way you will have the upper hand everytime! Just think of what you need to do to please Allah and do not be extreme in religion. 4. Who decides whether your worship will be complete or not? Shaythan or Allah? So by listening to the whispers of shaythan then you are simply obeying Shaythan over Allah! Therefore we must ignore his evil whispers and realise that ONLY Allah can accept our deeds so we should obey Allah and ignore these waswas. 5. If you get waswas then recite the following: A'udhu billaahi minashaythanirajeem and La Hawla Wala Quwatha Illah billahil aliyyil Adheem Also recite the four Quls Morning and evening and Ayatul Kursi Morning, before going to sleep and after every prayer. If shaythan whispers to you in prayer then look lft and spittle and recite A'udhu billaahi minashaythanirajeem thank Allah, wholeheartedly, for enabling you to overcome your desires and shaytan [saying, Alhamdulillah (‘All praise is due to Allah’)]; this makes Shaytan despair, and strengthens one’s resolve. The following verse of Surah al-mu’minun may also be beneficial: “Rabbi inni a’uzu bika min hamazat ashayatin wa a’uzu bika rabbi an yahdurun” Trans: O my Lord! I seek your protection from the instigations of devils and I also seek your protection from that they (ever) come to me. 6. Why disobey Allah and listen to shaythans whispers? By constantly repeating wudu, salaah and wasting so much time then we are going against Allah and instead listening to shaythans evil whispers. The fact is Allah wants you to reject the waswas but shaythan wants you to accept them, then who will you listen to? The choice is yours... A desert Arab came to Allah's Apostle  and asked him about ablution. He demonstrated (washing each part of his body) thrice, and then said: That is (the method) of the ablution. And he who does more than this has done wrong, transgressed the limit and has oppressed (himself). (Tirmidhi #417 , Nasa'i, Ibn Majah, and Abu Dawud)This hadith proves that one does NOT need to keep repeating the wudu over and over for no reason just because shaythan is telling us to repeat it. We would then transgress and oppress ourselves by doing so! Sameway one does not have to repeat the ghusl or prayers again and again for no reason just because shaythan tells us to. We are praying for Allah so shaythan has NO say in it and NEVER has! 7. It is unlikely that you will not be able to conquer waswas overnight. Shaythan will not give up so easily for he will try and make you feel like you just don't care anymore about your worship or shirk etc but again this is just one of his many tactics that he uses to try and put off Allah's worshippers and so know that you know the different angels then you are now more equiped to fight these evil whispers. There are many more different angles that the shaythan will use but they will all be similar in nature, so if you follow these tips then eventually you will be able to eradicate this disease out of your life FOREVER! and start to enjoy your worship of Allah again Inshallah. So countract all of these negative thoughts that you get after worship with positive thoughts and realise that ONLY Allah can accept your deeds and knows what is in your heart not Shaythan for he is just a deciever! Allah Most High has promised, “As for those who strive in Us, We surely guide them to Our paths, and lo! Allah is with the good.” [Qur’an, 29.69] 4 hadith on overcoming waswas 1. The Prophet, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam has said: "Whoever experiences anything of this Waswas, let him say three times,' 'Amantu billahi wa rasullih' and that will drive the Shaytan away." (Saheeh al-Jami' 6587) 2. The Prophet, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "The Shaytan may come to any one of you, and say, 'Who created such-and-such? Who created such-and-such?' until he asks, 'Who created your (Lord) Rabb?' If this happens to anyone, let him seek refuge with Allah, the Almighty, and let him stop such thoughts." (Sahih al-Jami' 93) 3. The Prophet, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said: "The people will nearly ask too many questions, so that one of them may say, 'Allah, the Almighty, created all of creation, but who created Allah, the Almighty?' If they say this, then recite: "Allah is the One, Allah is the Self-Sufficient Master, He begets not, nor was He begotten; and there is none co-equal or comparable unto Him" (Surah 112: 1-4), and spit (drily) to left three times, and seek refuge with Allah, the Almighty, from the Shaytan." (Saheeh al-Jami' 8182) 4. The Prophet, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam has said: "Think about the signs of Allah, the Almighty, do not think about Allah ( Himself)." (Saheeh Al-Jami' 2975) Form these texts we may summarize the following six ways of overcoming these insinuating thoughts: 1.The person who is experiencing such ideas should say," 'Amantu billahi wa rasulihi [I believe in Allah, the Almighty, and His Messenger, peace be upon him.]." 2.He should seek refuge with Allah, the Almighty, from the accursed Shaytan, and say three times, "A 'udhu billahi 'l-Sami' il-'Alim min al-Shaytan il-rajim, min hamzihi wa nafkhihi wa nafathih [ I seek refuge with Allah, the All-hearing, the All-Knowing, from the accursed Shaytan, and from his slander and evil insinuations]." 3.He should spit (with little saliva) to his left three times. 4. He should stop thinking about these things, as the Prophet, peace be upon him, said: "Let him stop." This is an important tactic, because continuing to allow the Shaytan to influence one in this way will only make it worse. The Muslim must stop these thoughts, as much as he can, and keep his mind busy with something useful and beneficial. 5. He should recite Surah al-Ikhlas (Qul huwa Allahu ahad), because it describes attributes of the All-Merciful and is considered to be equivalent to one-third of the Qur'an. Reciting this great Surah will guarantee an end to these insinuating thoughts. 6.He should think about the creating and blessing of Allah, the Almighty, not about His nature, because his weak human mind can never comprehend the nature of Allah. Allah, the Almighty, said: "..... but they never compass anything of His Knowledge." (20:110) Shaythan CANNOT decide if your worship is accepted or not, ONLY ALLAH CAN! Imprint this in your minds whenever you get any type of paranoia about worship. Surely shaythan does not know what is in our hearts. He cannot decide if our purification or worship is accepted or good enough or not. To him nothing good that we do will ever be good enough because he hates it when we do good. Therefore ignore shaythan who is our sworn enemy and know that he has NO say in whether our wudu, ghusl or any worship we do is good enough or accepted or not. He is decieving us into think it is not good enough and will not be accepted. Who is he to tell us this? NO ONE! So ignore him and do not listen to him. Know that as long as we try our best to do a good wudu and ghusl and worship him in the best way that we can then that is good enough for Allah. After that get on with making the best of each second of our lives and IGNORE YOUR ENEMY SHAYTHAN! Combatting the whispers of shaythan: http://islamicexorcism.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/combating-the-whisperings-of-shaytaan.pdf May Allah make it easy for those of us that suffer from these issues. Ameen For more resources on these issues please see the following thread: https://www.islamicboard.com/advice-amp-support/134304731-overcome-waswasa-ocd-worship.html" rel="nofollow - How to Overcome Waswasa/OCD in Worship (islamicboard.com)
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