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Topic: Converted to other sect
Posted By: sabaadeel
Subject: Converted to other sect
Date Posted: 14 December 2015 at 9:11am
I am too much worried for one of my elder sister. She is 33, she got married 4 years back. She has now 2 sons alhamdullilah. Problem is that she left offering prayers after getting married after one year. Her husband used to pray in the starting but he also left. From starting he has very different opinion about islam about namaz, life after death. he also has a veryyy close Qadyani friend, his childhood friend. My brother in law family is Sunni muslim, rest of family members offer namaz. But my brother in law is different. Since last two year we haven't seen him and my sister offer pray. She used to wear dupatta on head but she left now.
When her second son born last year someone via Phone gave Azaan to my nephew. My sister told us that they are following some Peer but she didn't tell us more than that. We asked her but she and her husband told they will never tell us about that.
I am too much worried about them. Please pray for them and tell me any dua so that I can read for them. and tell me the solution what should we do.



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Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 15 December 2015 at 7:45am
You may want to begin by leaving off all assumptions and speak with your sister in a kind and caring manner. Perhaps also, the family can make sure she has help with the boys to allow her to get out a few evenings or afternoons each month without the kids.


Posted By: fais
Date Posted: 17 December 2015 at 6:10pm
Assalam Alaikum,

Nice to see you so much concerned about your Sister and her religion. Its a very common thing that women changes their way of life and some times their beliefs also. You can do little about this but you may remind her the days she was close to her Tauheed. I think they are following Bariely firka where peers are given much importance than your Tauheed and Sunna of Prophet S.A.W.

Don't give up keep reminding her about her old days when she was not married.

Regards,
Faisal


Posted By: NABA
Date Posted: 23 December 2015 at 12:13pm
Show ch 74 v 43-44 of Quran in which Allah punishes those who don't offer salaah and feed poor.


Posted By: MarieFahnert
Date Posted: 15 January 2016 at 11:33pm
Originally posted by fais fais wrote:

Assalam Alaikum,

Nice to see you so much concerned about your Sister and her religion. Its a very common thing that women changes their way of life and some times their beliefs also. You can do little about this but you may remind her the days she was close to her Tauheed. I think they are following Bariely firka where peers are given much importance than your Tauheed and Sunna of Prophet S.A.W.

Don't give up keep reminding her about her old days when she was not married.

Regards,
Faisal


Exactly I truly agree with your comment.God is great he will take care of her children's keep hope.


Posted By: fais
Date Posted: 19 January 2016 at 1:44pm
Thank you Brother



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