The first rule in social interaction is not to socialise until you have learnt .because it will go wrong and that will hurt you and you will go back . people will say something bad because most people don�t know correct social interaction and due to their weak iman . its very difficult to forget a bad experience and if you said anything back and argued or humiliated anyone  or made rude gestures then when the time comes in a few years when you have mastered social interaction and especially how to control your own emotions during social interactions and how to read assess peoples genuineness and how to give excuses for their shortcomings and bad interactions and behaviour . by that time you and your relative(s) will have developed so much distance that your ties of kinship will remain hung until the end . trust me its very difficult to forget bad experience bad words  , you may even forgive a person but its very very difficult and unlikely to apologise and its very difficult for anyone to accept apology so rule number two never argue or quarrel because it causes humiliation to both and shaitan only wants that that muslims should live humiliated .

Read a lot of quran hadith listen to lectures and videos because it will give you clarity and confidence during interactions .read a lot of books , online on various topics , watch tv but only clean things like cartoons children shows good clean comedy shows family movies . talk to good genuinely Islamic PLUS GOOD peers elders teachers . maintain good relations with these good people and some borderline good people also talk to them , listen to how they are talking with you and others , you have to be a good listener and observer before being a good talker . watch how they react to unpleasant things ,how they avoid bad people , how they only hang out with good ones , how among each other they talk joyously , how they have fun , how they reply with humor to ok mild kind of leg pulling .plus you need to study well because at the end you learn interaction not to have endless interaction with others but

1 to keep your calm after talking to others so that you don�t become depressed and you can do your studies peacefully

2 youll maintain enough ties of kinship that you can help them not in how to dry clothes tips but genuine life problems big ones like buying property , marriage , disease etc .save you ties of kinship for big things

3 don�t talk on how to dry clothes , don�t talk on vulgar topics , don�t talk of clothes brands material things , don�t give lecture on how to be a topper .look mostly no one is interested at least not to hear from others these normal topics will cause so much of triggers in people including you because thoughts attitudes past experiences all differ . so even opinion on drying clothes can become a difference of opinion , hurt both people, and their goes your tie of kinship

4 talk pleasantly , on nonsense , about other people about general topics topmost single news event don�t show what a great news paper reader you are . complement on their achievement . add them on facebook do lots of face booking . no st**id talk again only sharing . never forget your salaams ,

5. dress up neat tidy , keep your room clean otherwise where you will seat them . anyways you have invted them only to sit and go obviously you wont start with your nonsense topics again. Only if they sit and go that�s success . serve them food fruits cut yourself , arrange seating , keep smiling laughing

6 pick up their children talk to aunts nice ones uncles , not your lectures again how they are about their surgeries , click photos with children and aunts  that�s it .

7 and also assess them like they are good bad liers , manipulatve , showoff , vulgar , st**id , keep your views to yourself judge them but don�t pass judgement and whatever they are continue all this with them . not like your discussing your lifes problem with them that their manipulative or lying st**id habits can affect you .

8 develop habit learn to take opinions on big things in your life from trusted friends and relatives only opinion like buying I pad , house marriage disease . after you have done your own search also . this is only form of interaction you don�t have to act on it

And remember one thing you have enough including enough social interaction experience to go and beg from anyone Allah has given you enough first thing necessary is to be grateful and confident about it

The greatest problem is parents many parents are highly impossible to interact with can even be manipulative simple minded etc so assess that first and be safe yourself and also they can sow enemity due to some old arguments but later youll realise it was still ok. but remember your parents are your door to jannat so never ever disrespect them , always try to keep them happy .