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Fianc� not practising Islam

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Topic: Fianc� not practising Islam

Posted By: Jajaarbab
Subject: Fianc� not practising Islam
Date Posted: 25 September 2017 at 3:31pm

Hi everyone I am 24 year old and I have 4 children.
My fianc� and I met 4 years ago and I converted to Islam about 6 years ago now and when we me he was really nice a very good person. He was brought up Muslim.

We both had children out of wedlock. And I am struggling as I am craving for God and I need to learn Arabic and do salah. I have friends who has help me but it's not enough. I have told him we need to stop our way of life and be true Muslims. But he is not ready and he want to go out and drink with friends. And am always home with our 3children. We were suppose to be getting married soon but not we are not talking as few days ago we had a violent fight, he hit me for the first time, because I got angry with he's behaviour. Where do I go from now. Should I just move one with my life. He also doesn't support me emotionally or financialy. He does work but everything goes to he's needs and friends. In my culture I have disappointed my parents and lowered myself as a women. I use to be a Christian before I did my shahada. I am now lost and I don't want my children to follow my ways. Please I need advice.