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Forum Name: Family Matter
Forum Description: Questions realted to familly matter.
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Topic: Marriage

Posted By: Desperate4me
Subject: Marriage
Date Posted: 28 April 2018 at 4:00pm

I have a big problem. I got married finally at the age of 36. We lived on our own but my mother in law would enter the home daily with excuses such as she needed to change our bed sheets or look for something. We never asked her to change sheets or do chores. She would then spy into my personal garments and other items. I expressed concerns with my husband and he told me to be “patient” this led us to fighting. I got pregnant and the baby lost it’s hearbeat and died. Finally my husband kicked me out and I moved out on my own, I fear divorce especially at my age. I still tried to make it work and tried to start a family with my husband— the doctor told us to try some treatments to get pregnant but my husband refused and told me he now wants a divorce. I have begged and pleaded with him... what do I do?? I’m now 38 I’ll be too old to have children soon??

Replies:

Posted By: Dr. Aslam
Date Posted: 03 May 2018 at 6:57am

Salam,

Its unfortunate that you are going through this. He has no right to behave the way he is behaving. Medical issues will be handled by medical experts, but you are also going through emotional stress. You need to sit down with your husband to discuss this matter openly and honestly. Be polite and respectful and see what happens.

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Best Regards,
Aslam Abdullah

Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 03 May 2018 at 7:02am

Why did your husband kick you out?

Posted By: Desperate4me
Date Posted: 03 May 2018 at 8:59am

I can’t. He has started the divorce proceedings.

Posted By: Desperate4me
Date Posted: 03 May 2018 at 11:09am

He is not interested in discussing with me. He has kicked me out and he will not answer my calls or my messages.
He has started his divorce proceedings in the court.

Posted By: Dr. Aslam
Date Posted: 03 May 2018 at 1:39pm

Leave a message to him and tell him all the concerns you have and the injustice, he has done to you.

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Best Regards,
Aslam Abdullah

Posted By: Desperate4me
Date Posted: 03 May 2018 at 1:59pm

He doesn’t care! Do you think he cares about injustices when he kicked me out?!?!

Posted By: Desperate4me
Date Posted: 03 May 2018 at 2:17pm

He kicked me out because he didn’t want me anymore

Posted By: Desperate4me
Date Posted: 15 May 2018 at 1:03pm

Where are you??? Why are you not responding to me???

Posted By: Dr. Aslam
Date Posted: 17 May 2018 at 4:29am

wz alaikum salam,

What was your question.

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Best Regards,
Aslam Abdullah