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Wife insulting behaviour

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Topic: Wife insulting behaviour

Posted By: Usman92
Subject: Wife insulting behaviour
Date Posted: 04 April 2020 at 11:44am

Asalam o Alaikum

I have been in nikah since last two years and is talking to my wife on mobile phone. My wife is very caring nd loving but sometimes she gets into a behaviour of insulting me with her words tries to provoke me and make me feel degraded with her words. She has even ask for divorce without any valid reason. What should i do coz the insulting behaviour is hurting alot nd its unbearable

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Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 05 April 2020 at 6:35am

Perhaps a manifestation of her own insecurities or your failure to fully comprehend what your words or actions contribute to her defensiveness. What to do? Don't respond in kind, make dua, and seek to draw yourself and your wife closer to Allah. Try to place your emphasis in this relationship upon her good qualities, ignore and give excuses for her bad qualities. Praise her for the behaviors you find pleasant and give gifts. Allah bless you and her with good.