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When I met my husband and we fell in love. We fought for each others love. When I say fought, we really fought. We really wanted each other. It had its ups and downs between both families, we still fought through. We had a whole bunch of haters, We finally got married a few years later. Then boom. Everything started to fall apart the day of the wedding. Wedding day was fine, but that night....it was weird. There was no chemistry. As much as we loved each other. There was no chemistry. When I say we loved each other, I mean we loved each other, to a point where we were willing to go against our parents but we didn’t. We did it the right way. Now we tried to fix our chemistry, there was progress. Still inlove. Still fighting for our love. We went to a few sheik to get hijama done as well as rukyah. A tiny progress after that. Then our downs increased. Arguments. Now my husband fell out of love. And he truly does not know why. But he assumes it’s from the arguments we had, nothing too serious by the way. They’re small silly arguments. I’m not sure if he’s talking to someone. We don’t go through each other phones, I am still deeply deeply I love with him. He says he loves me, cares about me, and can’t live without me, but is not In love with me. Still wants kids from me . I am so confused. I love him to a point where I am willing to sacrifice and give him kids just to make him happy. Because I love him. Islamically, a wife would be patient, I have been. I cry almost every day because I’m so helpless. I want my husband back. The guy that was so madly in love with me. I don’t know what to do, stay , or leave. As much as I want to stay, I’m embarrassed to, because he doesn’t feel the same. I need Islamic advice. We are on an edge thinking about divorce, I don’t what a divorce,. Looking for Islamic advice. We both pray.
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