problem with mum
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Topic: problem with mum
Posted By: Sweet Lady
Subject: problem with mum
Date Posted: 18 June 2007 at 4:52pm
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As salaamu'alikum, I have a problem at home i feel as though my mother is treating me differently from my other brothers and sisters. Its getting to me. My mum is always shouting at me and tells me to do things like clean up, i don't mind cleaning up but its the fact that she shouts at me like im in the army or something. Even my older brother realized that shes always shouting at me. I always cry of anger and i know i shouldn't be angry at my mum (may Allah 4give me) but its the way i feel inside. i feel so bad because she is my mum and i cant even be in the same room as her. i know i should talk to her but i cant because when i do she walks away and tells me to do as i am told. I cant take it anymore. Or other times when i talk to her she shouts even more. I feel that sometimes its better to be silent but i don't know because i tried it but it does not work. ------------- SALAMZ, -X- |
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Posted By: abuayisha
Date Posted: 18 June 2007 at 8:13pm
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Try taking the initiative to do what you know needs to be done without being asked. Even take it a step further and do other helpful chores not normally assigned. Be responsible and don�t complain. Try the above for one month and let us know if her behavior has changed. |
