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Sunan an-Nasai 5417 (Book 49, Hadith 39) #19949
Love and Hatred in Marriage

SUMMARY: The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) was amazed by the love of a slave for his wife and her hatred for him. He interceded on behalf of the slave, but she refused to take him back.

It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas that: The husband of Barirah was a slave called Mughith. It is as if I can see him walking behind her weeping, with the tears running down onto his beard. The Prophet SAW said to Al-'Abbas: "O 'Abbas, are you not amazed by the love of Mughith for Barirah and the hatred of Barirah for Mughith?" The Messenger of Allah SAW said to her: "Why don't you take him back, for he is the father of your child?" She said: "O Messenger of Allah, are you commanding me (to do so)?" He said: "I am just interceding". She said: "I have no need of him".
أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَهَّابِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا خَالِدٌ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، أَنَّ زَوْجَ، بَرِيرَةَ كَانَ عَبْدًا يُقَالُ لَهُ مُغِيثٌ كَأَنِّي أَنْظُرُ إِلَيْهِ يَطُوفُ خَلْفَهَا يَبْكِي وَدُمُوعُهُ تَسِيلُ عَلَى لِحْيَتِهِ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ لِلْعَبَّاسِ ‏"‏ يَا عَبَّاسُ أَلاَ تَعْجَبُ مِنْ حُبِّ مُغِيثٍ بَرِيرَةَ وَمِنْ بُغْضِ بَرِيرَةَ مُغِيثًا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ‏"‏ لَوْ رَاجَعْتِيهِ فَإِنَّهُ أَبُو وَلَدِكِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَتَأْمُرُنِي ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ إِنَّمَا أَنَا شَفِيعٌ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ فَلاَ حَاجَةَ لِي فِيهِ

TOPICS
marriage  *  love  *  hatred  *  intercession  *  nikah  *  mahabbah  *  buhtan  *  ah

QUICK LESSONS:
Try your best to work through any issues together with patience and understanding so that you can maintain strong relationships with those around you .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about a man named Mughith who was a slave and married to Barirah. The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) noticed that Mughith still loved Barirah despite her hatred towards him, which surprised the Prophet. He then asked Al-'Abbas why he wasn't amazed by this situation as well. The Prophet then interceded on behalf of Mughith, asking Barirah to take him back since he was the father of her child, but she refused his request. This hadith teaches us that even though there may be difficulties in marriage, it is important to maintain love and respect for one another despite any differences or disagreements we may have with our spouse. It also teaches us that we should not give up on our relationships easily; instead we should try our best to work through any issues together with patience and understanding so that we can maintain strong relationships with those around us.

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