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Sunan Abi Dawud 2071 (Book 12, Hadith 26) #22362
Refusal of Marriage Proposal

SUMMARY: The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) refused to allow Ali bin Abi Talib to marry the daughter of Banu Hashim bin Al Mughirah, unless he divorced his own daughter first.

Al Miswar bin Makramah said that he heard the Apostle of Allaah say on the pulpit Banu Hashim bin Al Mughirah sought permission from me to marry their daughter to 'Ali bin Abi Talib. But I do not permit, again, I do not permit, again, I do not permit except that Ibn Abi Talib divorces my daughter and marries their daughter. My daughter is my part, what makes her uneasy makes me uneasy and what troubles her troubles me. The full information rests with the tradition narrated by Ahmad.
حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ، وَقُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، - الْمَعْنَى - قَالَ أَحْمَدُ حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ، حَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ الْقُرَشِيُّ التَّيْمِيُّ، أَنَّ الْمِسْوَرَ بْنَ مَخْرَمَةَ، حَدَّثَهُ أَنَّهُ، سَمِعَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ يَقُولُ ‏ "‏ إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي أَنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ مِنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلاَ آذَنُ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ إِلاَّ أَنْ يُرِيدَ ابْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ فَإِنَّمَا ابْنَتِي بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يُرِيبُنِي مَا أَرَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ وَالإِخْبَارُ فِي حَدِيثِ أَحْمَدَ

TOPICS
marriage  *  proposal  *  refusal  *  divorce  *  zawaj  *  istikhaarah  *  radd  *  talaaq

QUICK LESSONS:
Prioritize your family over other matters; Respect your family members; Treat your family with kindness; Maintain strong relationships with your families; Take care of your families before anything else.

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about the Prophet Muhammad's refusal to allow Ali bin Abi Talib to marry the daughter of Banu Hashim bin Al Mughirah. He said that his daughter was a part of him and whatever made her uneasy would make him uneasy as well. This hadith teaches us that we should always prioritize our family and take care of them before anything else. It also shows us how much importance the Prophet Muhammad placed on family ties and relationships, even when it came to marriage proposals. We should also strive to maintain strong relationships with our families and treat them with respect and kindness at all times.

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