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Sunan Ibn Majah 1851 (Book 9, Hadith 7) #31203
Rights & Responsibilities in Marriage

SUMMARY: The hadith emphasizes the importance of treating women kindly and with respect, and outlines the rights that both men and women have in a marriage.

It was narrated that: Sulaiman bin Amr bin Ahwas said: "My father told me that he was present at the Farewell Pilgrimage with the Messenger of Allah. He praised and glorified Allah, and reminded and exhorted (the people). Then he said: 'I enjoin good treatment of women, for they are prisoners with you, and you have no right to treat them otherwise, unless they commit clear indecency. If they do that, then forsake them in their beds and hit them, but without causing injury or leaving a mark. If they obey you, then do not seek means of annoyance against them. You have rights over your women and your women have rights over you. Your rights over your women are that they are not to allow anyone whom you dislike to tread on your bedding (furniture), nor allow anyone whom you dislike to enter your houses. And their right over you are that you should treat them kindly with regard to their clothing and food'. "
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ، عَنْ زَائِدَةَ، عَنْ شَبِيبِ بْنِ غَرْقَدَةَ الْبَارِقِيِّ، عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ الأَحْوَصِ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي أَنَّهُ، شَهِدَ حِجَّةَ الْوَدَاعِ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ـ ـ فَحَمِدَ اللَّهَ وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ وَذَكَّرَ وَوَعَظَ ثُمَّ قَالَ ‏ "‏ اسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا فَإِنَّمَا هُنَّ عِنْدَكُمْ عَوَانٍ ‏.‏ لَيْسَ تَمْلِكُونَ مِنْهُنَّ شَيْئًا غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ إِلاَّ أَنْ يَأْتِينَ بِفَاحِشَةٍ مُبَيِّنَةٍ فَإِنْ فَعَلْنَ فَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلاَ تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلاً إِنَّ لَكُمْ مِنْ نِسَائِكُمْ حَقًّا وَلِنِسَائِكُمْ عَلَيْكُمْ حَقًّا فَأَمَّا حَقُّكُمْ عَلَى نِسَائِكُمْ فَلاَ يُوطِئْنَ فُرُشَكُمْ مَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ وَلاَ يَأْذَنَّ فِي بُيُوتِكُمُ لِمَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ أَلاَ وَحَقُّهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ تُحْسِنُوا إِلَيْهِنَّ فِي كِسْوَتِهِنَّ وَطَعَامِهِنَّ

TOPICS
marriage  *  respect  *  kindness  *  rights  *  responsibilities  *  nikah  *  addin  *  huda  *  huquq  *  wajibat

QUICK LESSONS:
Treat your spouse kindly even when you disagree or feel frustrated by something they do or say ; Communicate openly about expectations within a relationship ; Do not seek means of annoyance against your spouse ; Do not allow anyone whom you dislike into your house .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith speaks to the importance of treating one's spouse with kindness and respect. It is narrated by Sulaiman bin Amr bin Ahwas that his father was present at the Farewell Pilgrimage with Prophet Muhammad. During this pilgrimage Prophet Muhammad praised Allah and reminded people to treat their wives well as they are prisoners with them who cannot be treated otherwise unless they commit clear indecency. He also said that if wives obey their husbands then husbands should not seek means of annoyance against them. Furthermore he outlined the rights that both men and women have in a marriage; men have a right to not allow anyone whom they dislike to enter their houses while women have a right to be treated kindly regarding clothing and food.

This hadith teaches us about mutual respect between spouses as well as understanding each other’s needs within a marriage relationship. It also highlights how important it is for couples to communicate openly about what each partner expects from one another so there can be harmony within the relationship. Additionally it reminds us of our responsibility towards our spouses; we must treat them kindly even when we disagree or feel frustrated by something they do or say because ultimately we are responsible for maintaining peace within our marriages no matter what happens outside of it.

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