Seek advice from elders before making important decisions; Follow Islamic teachings & values when it comes to marriage etc..

This hadith is about a woman named Fathima bint Qais who was proposed marriage by three men; Muawiyah, Abu Jahm and Usamah bin Zaid. The Prophet Muhammad advised her to marry Usamah as he was the best choice among them. He said that Muawiyah was poor and Abu Jahm used to beat women, so she should not choose either of them. Instead, she should obey Allah and His Messenger which would be better for her in the long run. She followed his advice and married Usamah, with whom she was pleased with in the end. This hadith teaches us that we should always seek advice from our elders before making any important decisions in life such as marriage or career choices, since they have more experience than us and can guide us towards making better decisions for our future. It also teaches us that obedience to Allah's commands is essential for leading a successful life here on earth as well as in hereafter.