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Sunan Ibn Majah 1992 (Book 9, Hadith 148) #31344
Taking the Initiative in Marriage

SUMMARY: The Prophet Muhammad advised a woman to go to her husband before he had given her anything.

It was narrated from 'Aishah that: the Messenger of Allah told her to take a woman to her husband before he had given her anything (ie bridal-money). (Da' if)
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى، حَدَّثَنَا الْهَيْثَمُ بْنُ جَمِيلٍ، حَدَّثَنَا شَرِيكٌ، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ، - أَظُنُّهُ - عَنْ طَلْحَةَ، عَنْ خَيْثَمَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ـ ـ أَمَرَهَا أَنْ تُدْخِلَ عَلَى رَجُلٍ امْرَأَتَهُ قَبْلَ أَنْ يُعْطِيَهَا شَيْئًا

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marriage  *  initiative  *  bridalmoney  *  nikah  *  mahr  *  daif

QUICK LESSONS:
Take initiative in marriage by going to your partner before they give you something.

EXPLANATIONS:
The Prophet Muhammad was known for his wise advice and teachings. In this particular hadith, he is advising a woman to take the initiative in marriage by going to her husband before he has given her anything. This could be interpreted as an encouragement for women to take charge of their own lives and not wait around for someone else’s permission or approval. It also shows that marriage is not just about money or material possessions; it is about two people coming together and forming a bond of love and trust. This hadith teaches us that we should always strive for independence and self-sufficiency, even when it comes to matters of the heart.

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