Respectfully mourn without loud wailing or tearing clothes/shaving head .

This hadith is about how to grieve with dignity. It was narrated by Abu Burda b. Abu Musa that when his father was afflicted with a grave illness and became unconscious, one of the women in his household began to wail loudly. When he regained consciousness he said that the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) did not approve of such behavior and discouraged it as it does not show respect for the deceased or those grieving them. He taught that instead of wailing loudly, shaving one's head or tearing one's garments in grief, people should mourn quietly and respectfully as this shows more dignity for both the deceased and those grieving them.