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Sunan an-Nasai 3464 (Book 27, Hadith 76) #18076
Marriage Advice from the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)

SUMMARY: A man came to the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and told him that his wife does not object if anyone touches her. The Prophet advised him to divorce her, but the man was afraid of missing her, so the Prophet allowed him to stay with her as much as he needed.

It was narrated that Ibn 'Abbas said: "A man came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'My wife does not object if anyone touches her'. He said: 'Divorce her if you wish'. He said: 'I am afraid that I will miss her'. He said: 'Then stay with her as much as you need to'."
أَخْبَرَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ حُرَيْثٍ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الْفَضْلُ بْنُ مُوسَى، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ وَاقِدٍ، عَنْ عُمَارَةَ بْنِ أَبِي حَفْصَةَ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، قَالَ جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ فَقَالَ إِنَّ امْرَأَتِي لاَ تَمْنَعُ يَدَ لاَمِسٍ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ غَرِّبْهَا إِنْ شِئْتَ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ إِنِّي أَخَافُ أَنْ تَتَّبِعَهَا نَفْسِي ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ اسْتَمْتِعْ بِهَا

TOPICS
marriage  *  divorce  *  touching  *  fear

QUICK LESSONS:
Seek advice from elders/religious leaders when faced with difficult decisions in life related to marriage & family matters; Show compassion & understanding towards others' feelings & beliefs; Take marriage seriously; Respect for marriage

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about a man who came to the Messenger of Allah and said that his wife does not object if anyone touches her. The Messenger of Allah advised him to divorce her, but he was afraid of missing her so he asked for an alternative solution. The Messenger then allowed him to stay with his wife as long as he needed. This hadith teaches us that marriage is a serious commitment and should be taken seriously by both parties involved in it. It also teaches us that we should always seek advice from our elders or religious leaders when faced with difficult decisions in life, especially those related to marriage and family matters. Furthermore, this hadith also shows us how compassionate and understanding our beloved prophet was towards people's feelings even when they were wrong or misguided in their actions or beliefs.

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