Respect other people's wishes when it comes to matters such as marriage even if you do not agree with them yourself; Make sure both parties involved are mutually agreeing on a marriage decision; Allow self-determination when making decisions about one's own life choices such as marriage .

This hadith is about a woman who was married to her paternal uncle without her consent. Her father had passed away and so the decision was made by another relative, Qudamah. The woman did not like this marriage and wanted to marry Mughirah bin Shubah instead. She eventually got what she wanted and married him instead. This hadith teaches us that it is important for people to have a say in their own marriages, as it is an important decision that should be made with mutual agreement between both parties involved. It also shows us that we should respect other people's wishes when it comes to matters such as marriage, even if we do not agree with them ourselves.