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Sunan Ibn Majah 1998 (Book 9, Hadith 154) #31350
Refusing Permission for Marriage

SUMMARY: The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) refused to give permission for Ali bin Abu Talib to marry the daughter of Banu Hisham bin Mughirah, as she was a part of him and her feelings were his own.

It was narrated that Mishwar bin Makhramah said: "I heard the Messenger of Allah when he was on the pulpit, say: 'Banu Hisham bin Mughirah asked me for permission to marry their daughter to 'Ali bin Abu Talib, but I will not give them permission, and I will not give them permission, and I will not give them permission, unless 'Ali bin Abu Talib wants to divorce my daughter and marry their daughter, for she is a part of me, and what bothers her bothers me, and what upsets her upsets me".
حَدَّثَنَا عِيسَى بْنُ حَمَّادٍ الْمِصْرِيُّ، أَنْبَأَنَا اللَّيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ، عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ـ ﷺ ـ وَهُوَ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ يَقُولُ ‏ "‏ إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي أَنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلاَ آذَنُ لَهُمْ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ لَهُمْ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ لَهُمْ إِلاَّ أَنْ يُرِيدَ عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ فَإِنَّمَا هِيَ بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يَرِيبُنِي مَا رَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا
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marriage  *  refusal  *  permission  *  daughter

QUICK LESSONS:
Be considerate towards your family members . Think about how your decisions will affect them before taking any action . Value family ties in Islam .

EXPLANATIONS:
In this hadith narrated by Mishwar bin Makhramah, the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) refused to give permission for Ali bin Abu Talib to marry the daughter of Banu Hisham bin Mughirah. He explained that she was a part of him and her feelings were his own. This hadith teaches us that we should be considerate and compassionate towards our family members and those close to us. We should always think about how our decisions will affect them before making any decisions or taking any actions. It also teaches us that we should not make decisions based on our own desires but rather take into consideration how it will affect others around us. Furthermore, it shows us the importance of family ties in Islam and how they are valued highly in Islamic teachings.

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