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Riyad as-Salihin 1533 (Book 17, Hadith 23) #38022
Marriage Advice from the Prophet (ﷺ).

SUMMARY: The Prophet (ﷺ) advised Fatimah bint Qais (May Allah be pleased with her) against marrying Muawiyah and Abul-Jahm due to their financial status and attitude towards women.

Fatimah bint Qais (May Allah be pleased with her) said: I came to the Prophet and said to him: "Muawiyah and Abul-Jahm sent me a proposal of marriage". The Messenger of Allah said, "Muawiyah is destitute and he has no property, and Abul-Jahm is very hard on women". Bukhari and Muslim.
وعن فاطمة بنت قيس رضي الله عنها قالت‏:‏ أتيت النبي ، فقلت‏:‏ إن أبا الجهم ومعاوية خطباني‏؟‏ فقال رسول الله ‏:‏‏"‏أما معاوية، فصعلوك لا مال له ، وأما أبوالجهم، فلا يضع العصا عن عاتقه‏"‏ ‏(‏‏(‏متفق عليه‏)‏‏)‏ ‏.‏ وفي رواية لمسلم ‏:‏ ‏"‏وأما أبو الجهم فضراب للنساء‏"‏ وهو تفسير لرواية‏:‏ ‏"‏ لا يضع العصا عن عاتقه‏"‏ وقيل‏:‏ معناه‏:‏ كثير الأسفار‏.‏

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marriage  *  advice  *  status  *  women  *  nikah  *  nasihah  *  rasulullah  *  maalemaliyat  *  muhammad

QUICK LESSONS:
Respect all women regardless of who they are or what they do in life; Treat them with kindness and compassion at all times; Consider a potential spouse's financial stability before making any decisions regarding marriage; Follow the advice given by the beloved Messenger of Allah ﷺ .

EXPLANATIONS:
This hadith is about the advice given by the beloved Messenger of Allah ﷺ to Fatimah bint Qais when she came to him seeking marriage advice. The Prophet ﷺ advised her against marrying Muawiyah and Abul Jahm due to their financial status and attitude towards women. This hadith teaches us that it is important for us to consider a potential spouse's financial stability as well as their character before making any decisions regarding marriage. It also teaches us that we should respect all women regardless of who they are or what they do in life. We should treat them with kindness and compassion at all times.

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