chastity, virginity

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   oh ya, and friends i know have built their love and family without this virginity. even if the girl was a virgin he never asked her about it. he just said that he was glad to be the only and the first beloved of the girl

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schwester Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 07 April 2006 Status: Offline Points: 170	Post Options Post Reply Quote schwester Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 03 June 2006 at 3:39am
	oh ya, and friends i know have built their love and family without this virginity. even if the girl was a virgin he never asked her about it. he just said that he was glad to be the only and the first beloved of the girl Edited by sister_m82

schwester Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 07 April 2006 Status: Offline Points: 170	Post Options Post Reply Quote schwester Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 03 June 2006 at 3:31am
	i never thought that.. dunno, never thought that virginity is so important. say sisters, did husbands of you all ask you if you were a virgin before you married? especially converted, reverted sisters., and how did you react to such a question?? about first man attachments, :), it is not me saying this, other sisters put such opinion. means, they neither dunno why men prefer virgins.

Abeer23 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 28 September 2005 Status: Offline Points: 493	Post Options Post Reply Quote Abeer23 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 03 June 2006 at 2:23am
	Salam sister m82. I'm sure every guy has his own reasons. 1.) I seem to remember there being a hadith where the prophet s.a.w advised men to marry virgins or something to that effect (if you're interested, you could ask the sheikh at your local mosque for hadith about this, if it exists he'll give it to you). 2.) In most cultures (especially African and Arab) a guy that's never been married will marry a virgin. It's just a social norm (but of course there are always exceptions). 3.) Like you said, most people say that a woman is "forever attached" to her first. I'm not sure how true that is though. I know lots of sisters who have been married several times. And many of them hate there ex-husbands including the first one. 4.In this day and age many brothers are afraid of contracting STD's. I guess the possible answers to your question are endless. It really depends on the brother you're dealing with/ Salaam

schwester Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 07 April 2006 Status: Offline Points: 170	Post Options Post Reply Quote schwester Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 31 May 2006 at 4:24pm
	maybe this topic was discussed before, but i surfed some and couldn't find any old thread on it. so what i'm gonna ask is again your opinions and advices. how you think, why most of men prefer a virgin girl for marriage? why is it important for them? maybe a girl did some mistakes before she became muslim. i was little surprised when a reverted man asked me if i'm virgin or not. one of my friends say that it's because girls are more devoted to their first partner. just.., just i start doubting when a man considered for marriage asks me about my virginity. i start thinking if he is of uglies who just use innocent girls and then leave them.