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   Peace Lizze 

"I am concerned that i would stand out and/or not be accepted "

Firstly, the only way to know if you'd stand out would be to research the   Muslim demographics in the area white vs foreign/revert vs born Muslim.  Perhaps there are reverts in your area who are "white" but just haven't gotten around to wearing hijab yet.

To address your concern about being accepted; honestly, again, that would depend on the cultural climate at your local masjid (mosque). You may not be warmly welcomed by the women at first. The determining factor mainly would be how well educated/fluent in English they are. The weaker the grasp of English, the briefer their interaction with you.

"Has anyone else encountered this issue and how have they overcome it?

Fortunately I was able to form a close bond with a couple sisters. One is a fellow revert the other is born Muslim- born and raised here in the states. I met them when I contacted the mosque to learn how to perform shahada. 
Other than these two I don't feel very welcome in my Muslim community. Rather than feel miffed about it I channel my energies on strengthening my knowledge about Islam.

Lastly, for a pure hearted Muslim male whether you are of marriage material depends on the quality of your faith, not the color of your skin. Some of the Muslims with the strongest faith are reverts.

N.B.

Edited by NuraB - 12 December 2010 at 6:37pm

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NuraB Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Female Joined: 27 September 2010 Status: Offline Points: 87	Post Options Post Reply Quote NuraB Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: white woman Posted: 12 December 2010 at 6:19pm
	Peace Lizze "I am concerned that i would stand out and/or not be accepted " Firstly, the only way to know if you'd stand out would be to research the Muslim demographics in the area white vs foreign/revert vs born Muslim. Perhaps there are reverts in your area who are "white" but just haven't gotten around to wearing hijab yet. To address your concern about being accepted; honestly, again, that would depend on the cultural climate at your local masjid (mosque). You may not be warmly welcomed by the women at first. The determining factor mainly would be how well educated/fluent in English they are. The weaker the grasp of English, the briefer their interaction with you. "Has anyone else encountered this issue and how have they overcome it? Fortunately I was able to form a close bond with a couple sisters. One is a fellow revert the other is born Muslim- born and raised here in the states. I met them when I contacted the mosque to learn how to perform shahada. Other than these two I don't feel very welcome in my Muslim community. Rather than feel miffed about it I channel my energies on strengthening my knowledge about Islam. Lastly, for a pure hearted Muslim male whether you are of marriage material depends on the quality of your faith, not the color of your skin. Some of the Muslims with the strongest faith are reverts. N.B. Edited by NuraB - 12 December 2010 at 6:37pm

abuayisha Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuayisha Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 11 December 2010 at 9:39pm
	"....or not be considered suitable 'marriage material' by muslim men."

semar Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Male Islam Joined: 11 March 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 1830	Post Options Post Reply Quote semar Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 11 December 2010 at 11:18am
	Salam, I think many muslim are white. Turkey are over 70% are muslim, they are white. So don't be wory, yes seriuosly many muslim men want to have a white wife . Edited by semar - 11 December 2010 at 11:18am
	Salam/Peace, Semar "We are people who do not eat until we are hungry and do not eat to our fill." (Prophet Muhammad PBUH) "1/3 of your stomach for food, 1/3 for water, 1/3 for air"

lizze Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Female Joined: 11 December 2010 Location: Australia Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote lizze Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 11 December 2010 at 4:52am
	Hi I hope this question wont be taken offensively, but i have been wanting to convert to Islam for a long time and am nervous about the fact that i am very obviously white (seriously even my eyelashes are almost white lol) and i have never seen 'white' muslim girl. I am concerned that i would stand out and/or not be accepted and/or not be considered suitable 'marriage material' by muslim men. Has anyone else encountered this issue and how have they overcome it?