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    Posted: 20 November 2005 at 10:04am

Israfil,

      I did think Aisha was a teenager when she first started this comment, and the fact that shes confirmed it means i was correct. I don't think she actually means she wants to be a kafir, but i think its the materialism and peer pressure that probably makes her want to "fit in"  as it were.

What she needs to understand is that this is a test of her faith.

 

Aisha, just be strong. Besides, you can dress well and still be covered up.

O Allah! Bless Muhammad and let his be the place close to you on the day of Resurrection.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Israfil Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 16 November 2005 at 10:46am
Abeer agreed. I cannot speak for Muslimah's as I am not one myself. But no worries brother I would never advocate another Muslim to sin against Allah (Astragfirullah)
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My apologies brother.    I assumed you were telling her it's ok not to wear hijab.  I guess I shouldn't "assume"  things.  You know what they say about that.

Just one minor correction if I may.  To disobey Allah is a sin.  Since Allah has ordered us to wear it, not doing so is disobedience and thus a sin.   Ther are no variances on this issue.  

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Israfil Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 15 November 2005 at 4:32pm
Abeer you missed the point she said she sometimes felt like dressing as the disbelievers and I questioned why she felt that way and I made the example of sister that I know who do not wear Hijab. If I'm correct its not a sin that a woman does not wear hijab although  there are variances on that. I was not telling her to disobey God people should know how many times I'm always posting quite the opposite
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 I do wear hijab...My imam is greating better...everyone as there moments...Insh'allah i will never feel that way again

 I don't want to be live the dibelieves, I am proud to be muslim!

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Instead of telling her about how many muslim sisters are disobeying Allah (not covering), let's  encourage her to obey Allah (cover).  

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Israfil Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 15 November 2005 at 7:56am

aishag that surely is a terrible thing to write!

Why would you want to like the girl in public school who wear provocative clothing or the girl who wears tight fitting clothing to get attention or the girl who wears hardly any clothing to get all the attention? Listen I know Muslim women who dont wear hijab at the tmoment right now but are still strong in their faith. What is your problem? No offense I assume you're in High School right?

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Originally posted by aishag88 aishag88 wrote:

Sometimes i want to be more like disbelivers.

Why do you want to be like other people? Don't you just want to be you ?

 

 

~ Our feet are earthbound, but our hearts and our minds have wings ~
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