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    Posted: 24 February 2015 at 8:01pm

if you copy-paste the URL to a new window, it will work inshAllah.
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Nevermind. It's working. Thanks again. 😊👍
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thanks sister. the link is broken though.
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I m so sorry to hear about the state of Srinagar. My image of Kashmir is that of 1980s when I visited with my parents - it was peaceful back then.
And the persian poet who said if there is paradise anywhere on earth, its here (ie in Kashmir).

Im from Lucknow.

Istekhara not necessarily results in a dream. There is a special dua we say after the istekhara which means we leave our matters in the hands of Allah who knows best, so that whatever is the outcome of our situation, it is already taken care of by Allah.

check this link to know about the istekhara

http://seekershub.org/ans-blog/2010/11/03/the-reality-of-istikhara/

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I am just too afraid and hesitant to perform
istikhara.I might misinterpret the dream and also there is that "what if" fear. So I've asked a friend of mine to perform it on my behalf.
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In sha Allah. I hope so. I am concentrating on my studies only. This issue is still their in the back of my mind always.
You're not the only one sister. Lol.
Ive friends who talk about Aligarh being a 'bad place' and Aligarians being misfits,aggressive,arrogant and snobbish etc. 😊
Things are not quite as they were. Kashmir had been pushed back 20 years economically and infrastructurally. And if that were not enough, now the swine flu is wreaking havoc and there's panic all around Srinagar.
Where are u from btw; if you dont mind me asking?
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I am prejudiced against Aligarians, so I shld rather not comment on your case

Anyway, pray to Allah that He makes your road easy. perform istekhara, concentrate on your studies and let Allah take care of everything.

How are the things there after the floods last year?

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And yes you got that right. That is exactly whats the cause of my concern. Thanks sister. 👍
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