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    Posted: 18 January 2006 at 1:24pm

Yes I am Muslim, and you undermine the information I gave you which you seem to have little understanding of. If every muslim beleived as you did then I guess your advice would make sense.

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Bi ismillahir rahmanir raheem

Angela go back to my oroginal post and click on the Blue highlighted writting they are links to the original fatwah not simply writing which is highlighted in blue and underlined so it stands out

May i dont know what you are talking about in America abortion is an option for women if they choose it, so for a muslim to follow what there religion says is well within American laws, please dont throw out there generalised statments espetialy regarding Islamic law when non muslims simply treat them  as they would any other law, they do not understand them and there nature so they have no right to comment on them in such a manner.

If you are a muslims by some chance i sugest learning more about what shariah law is from reliable traditional sources, about how it is implamented in non muslim countries and what your responsibility is.

just some advice only a muslim government has the right for punishment and only in there lands, so no choping of hands or stonning to death or what ever stereotyopical image you have of our faith, it is haram to take matters into your own hands.

Can non muslims stop commenting on this topic your input is not asked for this isnt a discussion a muslim is asking for Islamic advice not confusion from your end. If you wish to discuss this by all means you are more than welcome to start a seperate topic in the relavent sections.

This interferance is the main issue moderators have with non muslims, a muslim can not seek advice from another muslim without a non muslim confusing the issue, we dont mind simple questions to clarify a point but this is getting out of hand.

The main reason for this site is to guide muslims then it is to educate non muslims please show some wisdom on the matter.

i wont be around for 2 weeks so i wont be able to reply to anything being said.


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Rasul Allah (sallah llahu alaihi wa sallam) said: "Whoever knows himself, knows his Lord" and whoever knows his Lord has been given His gnosis and nearness.
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LOL

So you think that before women in Saudi Arabia are allowed to vote, drive and be escorted without her husband or father she will be able to talk the Royal Family of upholding the United States' "Roe vs. Wade" law.????!!!!!!!!!!

Like I said before it is so rare that women in the United States are faced with a societal dilema as you described that it is socially irresponsible for us to let abortion be legal for everyone else. The majority of abortions are not necessary and more over, they are repeat abortions.

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Bismillah,

I am thinking of the Saudi girl who was raped by her brother's friend and then after she had the baby, she was dragged out of the hospital and murdered.  They said she enticed him to do it.  I read this here on IC.

I would rather have had this girl:  Escape to a safe place to have the baby secretly, or if that couldn't be done, abort it as early after the pregnancy was known as possible.  Many people have tough situations like this one, and I am not in their shoes.  Who will take care of her baby?  The wonderful family that so irresponsibly didn't protect her, their own child?

This situation resulted in the death of the mother, although it wasn't medical, rather societal.  Thank God many women are not faced with their own deaths because of Roe v Wade.

Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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Nausheen,

Its because the arguements over abortion here in the United States hold the "when is a child a child" argument. 

When is life created, conception, after the first trimester, or at birth?

I thank you and Rami for posting the FULL narratives so that I can read them.  I do not have access to this literature or even know its out there many times.

The reason I fight so hard is because the Pro Choice movement try very hard to define life at birth and not protect it when its in its most vulnerable state.  Telling them there's no soul until 120 days, they would use that as an argument for why its okay to have an abortion up to that point.

I personally do not feel we have a choice.  I would not consider death a choice for the mother, if there is no alternative, there is no alternative.  That's not a choice, it has to happen. 

I guess my fear was that Rami was saying it was okay, as long as the Ruh wasn't there yet. 

That upset me to no end.  When creation is denied to a woman, like it has been to me, then we tend to get a little more vicious in protecting it in others.  Sorry if I offended, but for me, a woman who has an abortion when there are other options like adoption....then that's murder.



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Because Nausheen we see life present at conception and that is the life worth preserving. It is dangerous to start implying when a human has a soul and I think it's obvious why. All over the world there is this problem of preserving innocent life and I have yet to see Muslims take a huge stand on it. In Holland for example now children who are born with major handicaps are being executed by euthenasia with the consent of their parents.
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Rami you implied that to take a pro-life stand is "Western". My quiestion for you is what is unislamic about that? Is this what is being taught in Islamic schools in the "East"? My hope is that Islam will reach it's full potential in the United States but Muslims must incoorporate their values into our system of government. As far as abortion is concerned that means joining the pro-life movement, which already craves diversity. This idea of going to a scholar to look up advice doesn't appeal to me because it undermines people's abitlity to make their own informed decisions on the subject.

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Auzubillahi minash shaitan ir rajeem,

Bismillah ir rahman ir rahim,

Originally posted by Angela Angela wrote:

Sorry Herjihad, Rami

But I have yet to see the verse in the Quran that says we don't get our souls until three months?

Where is the verse?

Angela, The Quran is sometimes silent on certain specifics, which are detailed in the hadith literature.

If I am not wrong the following verses are closest to your querry:

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YUSUFALI: He Who has made everything which He has created most good: He began the creation of man with (nothing more than) clay,
PICKTHAL: Who made all things good which He created, and He began the creation of man from clay;
SHAKIR: Who made good everything that He has created, and He began the creation of man from dust.

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YUSUFALI: And made his progeny from a quintessence of the nature of a fluid despised:
PICKTHAL: Then He made his seed from a draught of despised fluid;
SHAKIR: Then He made his progeny of an extract, of water held in light estimation.

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YUSUFALI: But He fashioned him in due proportion, and breathed into him something of His spirit. And He gave you (the faculties of) hearing and sight and feeling (and understanding): little thanks do ye give!
PICKTHAL: Then He fashioned him and breathed into him of His Spirit; and appointed for you hearing and sight and hearts. Small thanks give ye!
SHAKIR: Then He made him complete and breathed into him of His spirit, and made for you the ears and the eyes and the hearts; little is it that you give thanks.

Thru the hadith we get a closer picture of the events that follow in succession in a mother's womb.

The following are from Al-Bukhari

Narrated 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud

Allah's Apostle the true and truly inspired, narrated to us, "The creation of everyone of you starts with the process of collecting the material for his body within forty days and forty nights in the womb of his mother. Then he becomes a clot of thick blood for a similar period (40 days) and then he becomes like a piece of flesh for a similar period. Then an angel is sent to him (by Allah) and the angel is allowed (ordered) to write four things; his livelihood, his (date of) death, his deeds, and whether he will be a wretched one or a blessed one (in the Hereafter) and then the soul is breathed into him.So one of you may do (good) deeds characteristic of the people of Paradise so much that there is nothing except a cubit between him and Paradise but then what has been written for him decides his behavior and he starts doing (evil) deeds characteristic of the people of Hell (Fire) and (ultimately) enters Hell (Fire); and one of you may do (evil) deeds characteristic of the people of Hell (Fire) so much so that there is nothing except a cubit between him and Hell (Fire), thenwhat has been written for him decides his behavior and he starts doing(good) deeds characteristic of the people of Paradise and ultimately) enters Paradise."

Narrated 'Abdullah

Allah's Apostle, the truthful and truly-inspired, said, "Each one of you collected in the womb of his mother for forty days, and then turnsinto a clot for an equal period (of forty days) and turns into a piece of flesh for a similar period (of forty days) and then Allah sends an angel and orders him to write four things, i.e., his provision, his age, and whether he will be of the wretched or the blessed (in the Hereafter). Then the soul is breathed into him. And by Allah, a personamong you (or a man) may do deeds of the people of the Fire till thereis only a cubit or an arm-breadth distance between him and the Fire, but then that writing (which Allah has ordered the angel to write) precedes, and he does the deeds of the people of Paradise and enters it; and a man may do the deeds of the people of Paradise till there isonly a cubit or two between him and Paradise, and then that writing precedes and he does the deeds of the people of the Fire and enters it."

Narrated Abdullah

Allah's Apostle, the true and truly inspired said, "(as regards your creation), every one of you is collected in the womb of his mother forthe first forty days, and then he becomes a clot for an other forty days, and then a piece of flesh for an other forty days. Then Allah sends an angel to write four words: He writes his deeds, time of his death, means of his livelihood, and whether he will be wretched or blessed (in religion). Then the soul is breathed into his body. So a man may do deeds characteristic of the people of the (Hell) Fire, so much so that there is only the distance of a cubit between him and it,and then what has been written (by the angel) surpasses, and so he starts doing deeds characteristic of the people of Paradise and entersParadise. Similarly, a person may do deeds characteristic of the people of Paradise, so much so that there is only the distance of a cubit between him and it, and then what has been written (by the angel) surpasses, and he starts doing deeds of the people of the (Hell) Fire and enters the (Hell) Fire.

 Narrated 'Abdullah bin Mus'ud

Allah's Apostle, the true and truly inspired said, "(The matter of theCreation of) a human being is put together in the womb of the mother in forty days, and then he becomes a clot of thick blood for a similar period, and then a piece of flesh for a similar period. Then Allah sends an angel who is ordered to write four things. He is ordered to write down his (i.e. the new creature's) deeds, his livelihood, his (date of) death, and whether he will be blessed or wretched (in religion). Then the soul is breathed into him. So, a man amongst you may do (good deeds till there is only a cubit between him and Paradise and then what has been written for him decides his behavior and he starts doing (evil) deeds characteristic of the people of the (Hell) Fire. And similarly a man amongst you may do (evil) deeds till there is only a cubit between him and the (Hell) Fire, and then what has been written for him decides his behavior, and he starts doing deeds characteristic of the people of Paradise."

Every life is sacred in Islam, and even one taken away in injustice is like a murder of entire mankind. It is as straightforward as this.

Abortion is not permissible for petty reasons like "I was not ready". it was an accident, we are not financially stable etc etc ...

I have skimed thru your responses Angela, perhaps I should give more time, but so far I am unable to understand why you cannot see the regard for soul in Islam. Or why you had been re-emphasising your point when it was said already that aborting a pregnancy is wrong in Islam.

Peace,

Nausheen



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