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    Posted: 14 August 2008 at 10:15pm
Originally posted by gumus gumus wrote:

I spoke to the same Mualimah that told me about dropping the fard salaat and this what she said logically it makes sense.
 
 
I dont doubt your word she said that Gumus . . .  Jazakallah for following up on that. I just wanted to know what source/hadith the Mualimmah got that from - so I could personally read up on that. (like look up that hadith/source etc)
 
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Some were just'stopping-by'...!
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Again brothers should be considerate about the times sisters are ot well or don't fel up to it. As demanding too much wihout consideration will only result in losing their wives love for them.
 
BROTHERs BY ALL MEANS STAY AWAY FROM PORNOS
THEY ARE KUFRS SNARES OF DESTROYING OUR MARRIAGES.
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I spoke to the same Mualimah that told me about dropping the fard salaat and this what she said logically it makes sense.
 
example:   Zuhr salat will end after 2 hours so you have enough time to fulfil your husbands request and complete your ghusl and complete your salat before time is over, in that case drop your salat.
 
Example: Fajr will end in 15 mins, so complete your Fard salat and immediately proceed to your husbands need.
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who are all those people??? lol
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just an observation! this thread got 1138 views! pretty high, eh? :)
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Originally posted by gumus gumus wrote:

Regarding dropping Fard salat, I was told that by an elder and I went to an Islamic Mualimah to confirm it and she said yes that you are required to drop Fard salat.
 
With all due respect, just because so-and-so says something, even if they be 'knowledgeable' so to speak, it is not to be believed immediately, until there is a surety. There are certain scholars out there that I readily believe, because I know for a fact that they always have a backing source.
 
The only reason why I mentioned that is because sometimes ppl confuse culture/traditions with Islam.
 
I know the Nifal Fast (unobligatory Fast) can be broken for sexual purposes - but I dont think it applies to Fard Salaat. Whenever I've read about 'breaking/postponing' Fard Salaat, the reason has always been an emergency, or inconvenience, or safety etc. Which is why I asked.
 
  
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I would recomend sisters to not disclose their identities when discussing embaressing or private matters as regard to privacy.
But I feel it's a good idea for brothers to browse through as they can learn important stuff by reading our problems and see them through Muslimas perspective.
 
I agree. Also, I think if there is a place where everyone can easily follow proper Islamic ettiquette and still discuss delicate issues . . . it is the internet. Where else do we expect Muslim brothers to know about cerain pertinent issues firsthand? Surely not in person . . . .
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I checked with someone very knowledgeable in Islam and he said the only case of this is if a woman is doing a VOLUNTARY fast, she may be aked to drop this fast. That is why wives should cobfer with husbands if it is a good day to fast...Wink  But not for required fast or required prayer.
 
On dozens of web sites I have been on that discuss missing Fard prayers... none have EVER listed that you should drop it to have relations so to speak with husband.
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