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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote mowgli Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 09 August 2008 at 8:12am
Yes, I would appreciate a source for this too, I've never heard this before and it doesn't seem right to me?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Chrysalis Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 09 August 2008 at 3:29am
Originally posted by gumus gumus wrote:

Remember sisters that even though you are required to drop your Fard salat when your husband calls you for intercourse,

Are you sure? Could you please provide a reference/source for this, since I have never heard this before. . . Jazakallah in advance. Wise advise you gave our sisters . . .
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Chrysalis Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 09 August 2008 at 3:27am

Just a comment , if sisters do not wish the men to interfere/read the posts that they deem embarrassing/confidential - topics that say "sisters only" or "embarassing" - actually make the topic all the more curious for others . . . :p Just wanting to help out our shy sisters. PM is also the best way to discuss intimate topics. . .

Apart from that . . .I think that such discussions could perhaps benefit other women if men happen to read . . . perhaps some men dont know that thier wives also feel this way and that they should be considerate.

Suzy: Sex is not at all taboo in Islam . . .its just that most muslims tend to be too shy/modest. Also, people of ages and sensitivites are visitors to forums, so one has to be cautious. Had intimate issues such as the above been taboo, Islam/Prophet Muhammad would not have educated us about sexual ettiquette.

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Remember sisters that even though you are required to drop your Fard salat when your husband calls you for sexual intercourse, you are not obligated to fulfil his request for oral sex even thoughoral sex is said to be permissable. and you may also refuse sexual intercourse during menstruation and anal sex, as they are both forbidden.

IMPORTANT ADVICE TO ALL SISTERS:

NEVER ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE PHOTOGRAPHED/VIDEOTAPED NUDE OR DURING SEXUAL ACTIVITY AS IT CAN END UP IN ANYONES POSSESION.

ISLAMICALLY IT'S NOT PERMISSABLE FOR EVEN THE HUSBAND TO PHOTOGRAPH THE WIFE IN THE NUDE.
 
You must refuse your husband to be photographed nude.
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To the best of my knowledge, oral sex is OK. I am just wondering what kind of pills is he talking. I want some for my husband...
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As-salaam alaykum,

Indeed we are sis saqeen.It's a case of different strokes for different folks.Reverse is the case for some of us.

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salaam ...suzy & salams_wife,

thank u for ure support...i'm glad i'm not the only one *L* Wink

though I always thought men had more needs I find it so suprising in the real world I know more women wanting more frm their hubbies than the other way around....I find it funny that I was one of the few who had such an active hubby, really, aren't we such beautiful & curious creations of Allah? 

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Honestly I am glad you brought this topic up.  I imagine this is a problem for many women.  My husband has much more needs than I do.  I don't know how he does it, but in fact it is much more than once a day.  I tried to keep up at first, but after awhile I asked him if we could have some breaks because I become sore.  Luckily I have a wonderful husband and he is always concerned for my health so he always asks now if I am feeling okay for it.  I thank God for that, but I still feel bad that I can't please him to keep up with him.

I wish you the best of luck and I hope that you find all the help you need and things become better for you inshallah!

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