marriage

Thanks again for all the prayers that you have done for me. I do not believe anything is going to change this
man's decision.... We have a 24 year anniversary on
December 14 this year. I am so hurt and heart broken
and sad today. I know that it will be so difficult for
me on December 14..... I pray for ALLAH to give me
lots of strength on this day..... I know that I will
probably stay in bed crying most of the day.....
May ALLAH bless us and keep us strong in the times of
hardship...............
May ALLAH bless us all..........
Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 09 December 2008 at 2:02pm

Hello,

No I do not want him to come and celebrate our
anniversary, if he is not coming back.... That
would be so hard for me to move on in my life.
If he loves me, then he will remember this time
and will want to be with me. But, I think that
his mind is somewhere else. I am sure that he
will avoid this day altogether. He was something
in his head that he wants to be alone in his life
at this time. I pray so much, but if ALLAH
wanted us to be together, I think by now something
would have happened to my husband.... and he would
at least try an effort of showing some kind of hope
for us to be together.   His mind is made up....
I feel at this time that he does not want me in his
life at all..... I am so sad..........It has been
6 months now and he has not made any changes to
want to work things out.... I still do not know
what the main reason is that he left, except he
said that he changed. He does not want
me in his life anymore. I need to accept this now
even though it hurts so much, I have to move forward
in my life. No matter how much I cry, I have to make
myself move on in life.........
May ALLAH bless us all and pray that things will
change and maybe my husband will come back.\

Sharon

I tried with no response.

May ALLAH bless us and keep us save.

I will always love my husband no matter what he is going
through in his life at this time. May ALLAH bring him
home to me...........

Glad to hear from you. I am doing ok. I try to stay
busy, but it is so difficult at some times. I get sad
and discouraged at times, but I know that I will be ok.
I know that it was not anything that I did, for him to
leave me. So I pray that maybe someday he will respond
and want to come back home. Thanks again for your reply
and I hope to hear back from you soon. I am so thankful for someone to talk to......
May ALLAH bless us all and keep us safe.

Sharon

Edited by sharonjundi - 14 January 2009 at 2:03pm