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    Posted: 09 June 2009 at 4:45pm

Assallamu Alaykum fellow muslims and non muslims.

I was wonderin, how does one see the signs of the Du'aa of Istikhaarah.  some say it will be a dream, but if any one of you have any knowledge on this please share it with me.  Thank you.
 
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Walaikum Salam wa Rahmatullah,
 
Br. you know, when there's a mixed gathering we need not separate non-muslims. A common greeting is sent over all.
 
As far as i know, its not necessary that we get to know the decision only thru  dreams. When we offer salat-ul-Isteqarah, we leave the decision over Allah swt and have complete and unquestionable trust in that decision. It happens that we may or may not see a dream. I mean, its not necessary that the one who offers salat-ul-Isteqara, see a dream.
 
It is reported in a Hadith that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O Anas, when you intend to do some important things, then seek the good (seek Istikharah) from your Lord seven times and then do that to which your heart (or mind) is inclined, because the good is in it."
 
This hadith explains us that untill our heart gets inclined over a decision, we are to do isteqarah. This means, we need not wait for dreams. If we feel happy towards a decision, we shud go for it. Moreover, if that decision is bad for us , as Allah swt is the All-Knower, then Allah swt stops us from it. You remember the last lines of that dua !
 
 O Allah, if You know this thing (I am embarking on)  is good for me in my religion, worldly life, and my ultimate destiny, then facilitate it for me, and then bless me in my action. If, on the other hand, You know this thing is detrimental for me in my religion, worldly life, and ultimate destiny, turn it away from me, and turn me away from it, and decree what is good for me, wherever it may be, and make me content with it.
 
Look into that which is highlighted bold. This way, if its good for us, Allah swt shall facilitate it for us. And if its not, Allah swt will turn away from it. So just move on with the decision you strongly feel inclined with.
 
Allah swt knows the best
 
 
 
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Sallam seekshidayath.  Thank you very much for clearing that up for me.  If I may I have one question to ask you.  allahumma in kunta taAAlamu anna hathal-amr....after this line do you say what it is you want. or do you just go on saying khayrun lee fee deenee wamaAAashee waAAaqibati amree.  
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Seeks is right.
 
People usually wait for obvious signs or colors in thier dreams, this is not so. Unless the dream is very clear - one should go for what the heart is inclined towards. One could keep doing istikhaara until something happens. . . The dua is self explanatory - after Istikhara, whatever happens - assume it is good from Allah.
 
Interpreting Isymbols and signs in istikhaara dreams can be very subjective - so just trust in Allah and follow your heart (and brain) after doing Istikhaara.
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Sallam.
Thank you Chrysalis for your input.  I have a question to ask though, i posted up there but got no reply. 
allahumma in kunta taAAlamu anna hathal-amr....(after this line do you say what it is you want. or do you just go on saying??) khayrun lee fee deenee wamaAAashee waAAaqibati amree.
 
Ans seekshidayath said...It is reported in a Hadith that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O Anas, when you intend to do some important things, then seek the good (seek Istikharah) from your Lord seven times and then do that to which your heart (or mind) is inclined, because the good is in it."
 
What does this mean? do you have to recite the dua 7 times? or do you have to do 7, 2 rakat prayers?  and also can you say the dua before giving sallam or do you have to do it after you give sallam?
 
Sorry for the amount of questions, but I want to learn everything I possibly can about this Amazing Dua.  Your help is greatly appreciated.  Thank you.
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As Salamu Alaikum
 
You are welcome with "n" number of questions, young muslim. If we possess knowledge of that question, we shall surely answer, insha Allah. You shud n't hesistate to question untill you get cleared with the answer. I very much appreciate your approach.
 
If we are not sure of our decision even after Isteqarah, then we are repeat it for 7 times. We are to offer just 2 rakat everytime. Dua shud be read after salam.
 
And the one you asked sis Chrysallis, at hathal {hazal} amr, you need to specify your intention of isteqarah. and continue with khayrul lee fee deneee --
 
You can the same question again if its still not clear.
 
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Sallam sis, Thank you very much for your help.  May Allah tala bless you.

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asslam o alaikum warahmatullah...i wud like to ask u  one thing ..that can u support ur answer stating that dua shud be recited after salam..??

i am waiting.
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