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Hayfa 
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 Posted: 15 July 2009 at 6:17pm |
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Hehe....am sure men can only really cope with one wife...women on the other hand would have no trouble coping with 2 husbands
 LOL, that is because we are really good at multi-tasking... hehe |
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When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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sophykhan
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Posted: 16 July 2009 at 12:58pm |
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martha
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Posted: 16 July 2009 at 1:34pm |
Very true Hayfa. I mean how many men i.e. can vacuum, dust, wash dishes and cook a meal all at the same time?
 ......and still go food shop!...all in the space of an hour!! |
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some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set
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ZEA J
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Posted: 23 September 2009 at 2:20am |
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How dare you say such a thing to me. Just because I decided to not stay with my husband doesn't mean i have weak iman. You have such a judgemental and holire than thou attitude. And you know what sister, if you dont have anything good to say just keep quiet. OK!
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"You will never attain piety and righteousness,(and eventually paradise)until you
spend of that which you love."(Al-Imran:92) |
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martha
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Posted: 23 September 2009 at 6:34am |
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Sister Zea,
DOn't worry about some comments...SOme Sisters are a little harsh I know.
I think you have shown great courage to divorce your husband. Whatever you feel is best for you is fine. I don;t think Nur Ilahi has to share her husband with another woman, so I don't think she fully understands.
Salaams
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some of us are a lot like cement:- all mixed up and permanently set
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Full of Hopes
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Posted: 23 September 2009 at 8:31am |
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Asslamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatu Allah Sisters may Allah forgive us. There are two kinds of topics: 1- Islamic issues 2- non- Islamic (social- medical.. and so on) As Muslims, when Allah says or states that something is permitted or forbidden we have to accept it immediately and never argue about it. If we are Muslims, then everything form Allah is to be fine, correct, fair and accepted, otherwise we are not true Muslims. Quraan: 2.85 Then is it only a part of the Book that ye believe in, and do ye reject the rest? but what is the
reward for those among you who behave like this but disgrace in this life?- and on the
Day of Judgment they shall be, consigned
t o the most grievous penalty. For God is not
unmindful of what ye do. (4.65 But no, by the Lord, they can have no (real)
Faith, until they make thee judge in all disputes between them, and find in
their souls no resistance, against
Thy decisions, but accept them with the
fullest conviction.) May Allah forgive me and you and guide us into the way of true believers. Edited by Full of Hopes - 23 September 2009 at 10:42am |
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 And whoever seeks a religion other than Isl�m, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers(3:85)
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Hayfa
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Posted: 23 September 2009 at 9:41am |
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Aslaam Alaikum Full of Hopes
I pray you had a wonderful Eid. I agree it is not up to any Muslim to make what is halal- haram. Some people honestly get confused with the parameters to any marriage. All women and men have Rights and Responsibilities. We read on the internet or hear from someone else and we end up gonig down the wrong path. We do have to accept that polygyny is one option. And the blessing of Allah is we can choose. A husband may marry another wife and the 1st or 2nd or 3rd can say it is a hardship for them to live this way. What a true blessing of Allah! You know in Catholicism, you could not divorce. Yes it is not recommended in Islam but it is allowed. The blessing of Islam is that often we have choices. Women and Men can choose to be in polygyny or not. But it is not up to any of us to say it is haram. Allah is most merciful! Hayfa |
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Shasta'sAunt
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Posted: 23 September 2009 at 11:36am |
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Salaams,
I don't think anyone here said that polygyny is haram. But khula is not haram either and thanks to Allah's Mercy women have the option of leaving a situation that they personally cannot abide.
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