Bizarre Ideaologies

Alas my spelling is a bitt off as my keyboards are in need of replacement, but thank you sis for your comments. I only hope Sister Anne will eventually come to the understanding of the experience of Islam...

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Alaikoam Salam

You make some excellent points

The reason I wrote as I have is that unfortunately some people neglect to respect the beauty and High Station Allah gave each of us when He breathed into us His Spirit.

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YUSUFALI: "When I have fashioned him (in due proportion) and breathed into him of My spirit, fall ye down in obeisance unto him."

Some people due to ignorance or apathy of their emotions or how to deal with them or fear to say they are having certain feelings neglect to get assistance.

I will give an example, as a child we are curious of many things sometimes adults see us gazing at them and they think o this child is interested in me and the adult somehow starts having feelings of attraction sexually for the child, instead of speaking to their Doctor, Imam, Clergy they are having such thoughts they begin to act on these feelings without consultation and they start to hurt the child physically or sexually and the child is injured, the adult instead of realizing/caring He/She has made a mistake kills or injures the child and hides their mistake.  You see children often are in various states of dress or undress and they are innocent as even though they are curious or seem somehow interested in an adult or young adult they are still children and innocent and I am attempting to encourage people to think carefully before they take action.

 

In Islam and other religions some forbid a person from pleasuring themselves and this action causes a condition that one need be aware of the stages and levels of sexual frustration and how to cope with the resulting instability that can occur within anyone in the course of denying themselves in this manner.  This condition may increase the likely hood of certain kinds of behavior if one is not educated in how to cope with these levels and conditions.  That is why I recommend workshops or training in Healthy Boundaries, Good Communication Skills, Good Conflict Resolution Skills, Family Planning, Educationial Options and open lines of communitication with safe and caring places to do so without fear.

I am trying to establish and reaffirm that Allah created us with a High Station and Purpose and every effort should be taken in our education, training, counseling, consultation, prayer, with living prayer and Hajja Call to an Inter Faith Jihad.....

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YUSUFALI: And pray in the small watches of the morning: (it would be) an additional prayer (or spiritual profit) for thee: soon will thy Lord raise thee to a Station of Praise and Glory!

I hope this answers some of the questions.

Salam

Anne Marie Elderkin Habibi (ALEH)

Alas my spelling is a bitt off as my keyboards are in need of replacement, but thank you sis for your comments. I only hope Sister Anne will eventually come to the understanding of the experience of Islam...

I promise you pointing out someone's spelling errors was not my intent, God knows how many mistakes I make per day I lost count and Hope that God will forgive me for them, I was merely using it as an analogy that learning doesn't stop after 43 years of research. Perhaps I should have used a less obnoxious example, though it might not serve a purpose but imagine perhaps that your family physician stopped taking continuing education courses and is off treating people with what he thinks is good medicine though the consensus believes that it is not the appropriate way to practice. We are all shaped in a way with our own thought processes and many of us can't imagine life running along a different axis or perspective. everyday I Know there is someone out there to teach me something, and today you have taught me that I might have been a bit insensitive in using my analogy so I thank you and I ask for your "d3wat" I am going through a bit of a hard time in my life right now

 

 

Alaikoam Salam

Nausheen

 

In saying that regardless of whether someone is married or not and entering into a relationship I am just recognizing that these things happens and it is the will of Allah that should or when these things happen that both partners respect one another and not abuse one another in any manner, like some men use women and disgard them, I am saying they cannot do this if they want relations they must respect the one giving them the gift of their body and time as currently some men (Once in a whiole a woman) tend to feel women are their toys to use and toss away so I am saying if they want what they want thenm they have to behave better or Allah will chastise them and send them to counseling, healthy boundaries school etc.

As I mentioned I am only writting my enthusiasm for Islam and the process of Islam and I hope my articles help people think a little differently and maybe make them smile Inshallah and give hope.

As for Marriage I am all for it and I think that when there are open lines of communication and all issues are consulted on with the marriage and with counselors like when sexual health problems come up then the partner with the problem with their spouse will go to the Doctor and say I am having this kind of problem what can I do, or we have been mkarried many years and I do not feel as attracted to my partner because they gain weight and I am at loss at what to do to encourage them to get healthy not to mention some cultural issues that keep women in the house and this leads to them gaining many pounds and becoming less attractive some times or it can be the man too any way encourage them they can get help with their problems and Allah is desperate for them to be healthy because less money spent on illnesses and maritial breakdown then more money to give Zakat to the poor or a Charity or school to educate the poor or abusive peoples that beat their partner or children.

 

They can be a hero like Mohammed PBUH  and lead the people by their positive actions in correcting themselves by going to workshops and learning Healthy Boundaries, Good Communications, Conflict Resolution Skills, Parenting Skills, Family Planning, Education Planning and How to establish and nurture or grow a healthy relationship, family and children.

 

Even the worst Monster among us is not worthless in the sight of Allah for He Breathed of His Spirit into them also and Allah never Created anything that was worthless.

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YUSUFALI: "When I have fashioned him (in due proportion) and breathed into him of My spirit, fall ye down in obeisance unto him."

 

Each person is a Messenger and the stories of their life are stories of leadership or a lack of it and we need to encourage everyone they can learn positive skills to be better People and Messengers.

 

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YUSUFALI: And pray in the small watches of the morning: (it would be) an additional prayer (or spiritual profit) for thee: soon will thy Lord raise thee to a Station of Praise and Glory!

 

I will relate a story

 

A man was beating His wife and she loved him so much that she tried her hardest to get him to love her but he did not and then she had to let him go because he was abusing her and when she let him go he realized he loved her but it was too late she loved him but could not live with him any more.

The moral of the story is if they had gone to counseling they might have had a better relationship, marriage and been better parents.  The Wife was abused many times over her life and had few places that were safe to share her pain and confusion and then when she had children she was sometimes mean to them because of her ignorance in what to do and not taking advice from counselors or learning what was reallyy wrong or admiting it and she got sick and lost most of what she had including the daily hugs and antics of her children but she needed time to heal and learn how to be a better person and find her own Place of No Sorrow, like learning to speak her mind on many things....

A Story of a Journey to a Place of No Sorrow...

Anne Marie Elderkin Habibi (ALEH)

 

 

 

 

 

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