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alsathik 
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 Topic: Is it right?Posted: 29 June 2005 at 5:13pm |
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Salaam Alaikkum, one of our muslim sister was raped by her father-in-law and she was forced to marry her father-in-law by the Islamic cleric in Uttar Pradash, India. Is it corrrect? let me know about this. Walaikkum Salaam. |
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J.R.
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Posted: 29 June 2005 at 6:06pm |
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Assalamu Alaikum,
How can this even be a question if it's right?! All logic points to NO!!! The fact that she was raped and the rapist has obviously gone unpunished shows how wrong it is. I once read a story from the Prophet's time (pbuh) and forgive me if I don't have the story exactly right. A woman in the community was raped and instead of the rapist being punished for his crime, both families wanted to settle the matter though a settlement of money. The Prophet (pbuh) once hearing of this insisted that the rapist be punished. I wonder if anyoen else has heard of this. May Allah (swt) comfort taht poor woman and give her strength. Peace, J.R. |
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Posted: 30 June 2005 at 2:09am |
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??????? If she has a father in law, she has a husband - how could she marry the father in law? God - why are there SO many places in the world where women are actually better off DEAD? Kim... |
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Posted: 30 June 2005 at 3:50am |
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it is sickening just goes to show how lack of islamic understandin and islamic faith there is in the world. that man shud be killed. its a cliche - but we need an islamic state |
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Posted: 30 June 2005 at 4:28am |
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Bi ismillahir rahmanir raheem
assalamu alaikum I dont know what they are practecing there but it isnt Islam. It clearly says in the Quran "La Ikraha Fi Deen" There is no compultion in religion. Regarding this very point Imam Malik One of Islams Greatest Mujtahid Scholars would not take back his ruling on the matter even after being flogged and paraded. The caliph Abu Ja`far al-Mansur had forbidden Malik to narrate the hadith: "The divorce of the coerced does not take effect" (laysa `ala mustakrahin / li mukrahin tal�q). Then a spy came to Malik and asked him about the issue, whereupon Malik narrated the hadith in front of everyone. He was seized and lashed until his shoulder was dislocated and he passed out. When he came to, he said: "He [al-Mansur] is absolved of my lashing." When asked why he had absolved him, Malik replied: "I feared to meet the Prophet after being the cause for the perdition of one of his relatives." Ibrahim ibn Hammad said he saw Malik being carried up and walking away, carrying one of his hands with the other. Then they shaved his face and he was mounted on a camel and paraded. He was ordered to deprecate himself aloud, whereupon he said: "Whoever knows me, knows me; whoever does not know me, my name is Malik ibn Anas, and I say: The divorce of the coerced is null and void!" When news of this reached Ja`far ibn Sulayman (d. 175) the governor of Madina and cousin of al-Mansur, he said: "Bring him down, let him go." |
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Rasul Allah (sallah llahu alaihi wa sallam) said: "Whoever knows himself, knows his Lord" and whoever knows his Lord has been given His gnosis and nearness.
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Khadija1021
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Posted: 30 June 2005 at 10:57pm |
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I recently read a fatwa on a similar case in Edited by Khadija1021 |
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Say: 'My prayer and my rites, my living and my dying, are for Allah alone, the Lord of all the worlds. (Qur'an, 6:162)
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ZamanH
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Posted: 08 July 2005 at 9:15pm |
Nope that is not correct. I wish I could have replied to you earlier. The fatwa by the local Muslim cleric ordered the victimised woman to live separately from her husband and five children, after being raped by her father-in-law. As far as I know, that judgement is islamically sound because a man is not supposed to have intercourse with women who had intercouse with their fathers or sons. |
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An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend.
There will be more women in hell than men. ..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191) Heaven lies under mother's feet |
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ZamanH
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Posted: 08 July 2005 at 9:20pm |
Poverty is so crippling here, almost as many men feel the same way. Admittedly, women do suffer significantly (but not greatly) more compared to men and that is a disgrace. But, I don't think most of them will think its intolerable to live here if they had not been poor. |
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An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend.
There will be more women in hell than men. ..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191) Heaven lies under mother's feet |
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