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Originally posted by Maryah Maryah wrote:

Asalaamu alaikum:
And here is the ruling of one Scholar or Shayk that I found at Islam online, please note the Quranic verse it includes, It is the command of Allah Sunbanallah wa taa'la: This is what I mean for every fatwa there is a counter Fatwa:


found at http://www.islamonline.com/news/newsfull.php?newid=73425

No wrong to wish merry xmas: Qaradawi

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Qaradawi said the Noble Qur'an encourages Muslims to greet Christian and Jewish minorities in their countries quite affably.

CAIRO � Muslims are expected to be friendly towards Christian and Jewish minorities in their countries, reciprocating any goodwill and festival greetings, and treating them on equal terms as citizens, prominent scholar Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi has said.

"Greeting Christians and Jews in their festive days is permissible if they are at good terms with Muslims, particularly those close like relatives, neighbors, work or education colleagues," Qaradawi, the president of the International Union for Muslim Scholars (IUMS), wrote in an article published on his website.

Qaradawi said the Noble Qur'an encourages Muslims to greet others quite affably.

"Allah Almighty says: "When you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or at least return it equally�) (An-Nisa� 4: 86)

"And: "Verily, Allah loves those who deal with equity," (Al-Mumtahinah 60: 8), Qaradawi added.

Christians worldwide are celebrating nowadays Christmas or the birth of Jesus Christ.

In a goodwill gesture, 138 Muslim scholars signed last week a Christmas message to the Christian clergy worldwide, including Pope Benedict XVI.

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The renowned Muslim scholar has also urged Muslims to refer to Christians in Muslim countries as "citizens" in lieu of "Ahl Adh-Dhimmah" � a term used in early Islam to describe Christians and Jews living under the protection of the Islamic state.

He said Muslim scholars have reached a consensus that Christians living in Muslim countries should enjoy citizenship rights.

"They (Christians) live in this or that (Muslim) country; so why don't we drop Ahl Adh-Dhimmah which offends them and use 'citizens' instead? Qaradawi wondered.

Qaradawi said Muslims should live in today's world and be realistic.

"Many sheikhs and scholars live in their books not in our world," he said.

"They have not read yet the book of life as they read the books of early Muslim scholars. Their fatwas then sound out-of-date."

Source: IslamOnline
4:86 When a (courteous) greeting is offered you, meet it with a greeting still more courteous,
or (at least) of equal courtesy. Allah takes careful account of all things.
وَإِذَا حُيِّيْت 15;م بِتَحِيّ 14;ةٍ فَحَيُّو 75;ْ
 بِأَحْس� 4;نَ مِنْهَا أَوْ رُدّ&a mp;# 1615;وهَا إِنَّ
 اللّهَ كَانَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْءٍ حَسِيبًا





Subhan Allah!  If this fatwa is truly from Sheikh Al Qaradawi then I am surprised because it is from someone who clearly has little or no understanding of the Qur'anic ayat presented or who is either following their own nafs or making this fatwa for some other reason besides for the sake of Allah.  Allahu alim.

The main argument in this fatwa is revolving around the ayah from Surat Nisa number 86 and he is twisting it for his own purpose.  This ayah is talking about the greeting "As Salamu Alaikum". It is st**id and ignorant and a trick of shaitan to think otherwise.


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Originally posted by Angel Angel wrote:

Originally posted by seekshidayath seekshidayath wrote:

Minuteman - Zawaj.com clearly answers your questions. Its upto you.

Hi Angel

Is there anywhere in islam, well from the quran and hadith, that provides what the punishment is? And is there anything that implies that Allah will punish you for wishing a merry/happy christmas, or wishing in general for goodness and happiness at anytime whatever the religion or other festivals are?as you said

This is stated.

Among the Ummah of Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) there will be people who deviated from the truth and went towards falsehood, changing and altering things. Their punishment will be that they will be kept away from the Hawd (Cistern) whilst those who adhered to the Straight Path will come and drink from it.

Bu congragulating or particiating in them we are affirming there faith and strenthening them.

So should non muslims and christians (if they do) stop celebrating muslim festivities or just joining in for fun, to stop you from feeling proud of your religion and beliefs ? and stop you from being stronger.



There is one difference.  Muslims are not worshipping Prophets or idols or anything except Allah who is Al Haqq (The Truth).  So anybody is welcomed to join a Muslims festival who has pure intention.

Also, how do other people joining us in our festivals help our faith or make us stronger?

Nobody except Allah gives us faith and makes us strong.  Allah does not judge anybody except by his heart.

I apologize if I misunderstood your words and did not respond correctly.  If that is the case, please clarify.
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As Salamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah,

I will remind everyone of the fatwa I posted.  If you accept it, then your wrong and should change your mind.  If you reject it, then you should reconsider as the fatwa presents proof and you haven't.  Fear Allah.

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If they greet us on the occasion of their festivals, we should not respond, because these are not our festivals, and because they are not festivals which are acceptable to Allaah. These festivals are innovations in their religions, and even those which may have been prescribed formerly have been abrogated by the religion of Islaam, with which Allaah sent Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) to the whole of mankind. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"Whoever seeks a religion other than Islaam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers." [Aal �Imraan 3:85]..........


Whoever does anything of this sort is a sinner, whether he does it out of politeness or to be friendly, or because he is too shy to refuse, or for whatever other reason, because this is hypocrisy in Islaam, and because it makes the kuffaar feel proud of their religion.

http://islamqa.com/index.php?ln=eng&ref=947
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Angel Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 08 January 2008 at 8:08am
Originally posted by Knowledge01 Knowledge01 wrote:

Originally posted by Angel Angel wrote:

Originally posted by seekshidayath seekshidayath wrote:

Minuteman - Zawaj.com clearly answers your questions. Its upto you.

Hi Angel

Is there anywhere in islam, well from the quran and hadith, that provides what the punishment is? And is there anything that implies that Allah will punish you for wishing a merry/happy christmas, or wishing in general for goodness and happiness at anytime whatever the religion or other festivals are?as you said

This is stated.

Among the Ummah of Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) there will be people who deviated from the truth and went towards falsehood, changing and altering things. Their punishment will be that they will be kept away from the Hawd (Cistern) whilst those who adhered to the Straight Path will come and drink from it.

Bu congragulating or particiating in them we are affirming there faith and strenthening them.

So should non muslims and christians (if they do) stop celebrating muslim festivities or just joining in for fun, to stop you from feeling proud of your religion and beliefs ? and stop you from being stronger.



There is one difference.  Muslims are not worshipping Prophets or idols or anything except Allah who is Al Haqq (The Truth).  So anybody is welcomed to join a Muslims festival who has pure intention.

Also, how do other people joining us in our festivals help our faith or make us stronger?


obviously the same way by being there and wishing happy eid.

and by the way my using stronger is inline with strengthen, when you strengthen something you make it stronger,

Quote Nobody except Allah gives us faith and makes us strong.  Allah does not judge anybody except by his heart.


exactly so what are you doing?

You say that by congratulating and participating makes them stronger and yet here you say its Allah, so being under the same God/Allah, then its Allah that is strengthening them

Quote I apologize if I misunderstood your words and did not respond correctly.  If that is the case, please clarify.
 


that's ok.

p.s: I edited my post, so you may want to re-read, i just added on.


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Allow me to address Sign Reader because unfortunately his remarks were off the wall in the following:

Waalaukussalaam: Don�t worry about being late on the post cuz it has so far been viewed by app 500 people and if hazard that they were all Muslims then makes them  about 0.00003% of the Muslims in the whole world, will take a long time to warn all who are living in the non Islamic world and those who stuck in the neo colonialism. So get the this heavy weight off your shoulders and relax!

What the hell does the above mean? It is incoherent and I'm not sure what .03% of Muslims are you referring to.

It is no secret brother what you are calling KUFAR have enslaved Islamic lands directly or indirectly. If you live in some African country, mostly were part European colonies, imagine the degradation the people have gone through!

Ok again what are you talking about here? You need to address the topic in a comprehensible format.

I could go on and on and although you mentioned some things I understood I get this impression you are still on this political roll here about the United States and western colonialism.

Let me respond to this fatwa that knowledge 01 posted:

If they greet us on the occasion of their festivals, we should not respond, because these are not our festivals, and because they are not festivals which are acceptable to Allaah. These festivals are innovations in their religions, and even those which may have been prescribed formerly have been abrogated by the religion of Islaam, with which Allaah sent Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) to the whole of mankind. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"Whoever seeks a religion other than Islaam, it will never be accepted of him, and in the Hereafter he will be one of the losers." [Aal �Imraan 3:85]..........

First knowledge let me ask what the scholars mean by invented. Both Christmas and Hannukah are based on actual historical events that happenend. Both holidays are a celebration and both enjoin goodwill. Where in the Qur'an does Allah specifically say he does not personally accept Hannukah, Kwanzaa, The New Year celebrations (2008), Christmas? You are failing to support your argument with continuous dodging. If I'm to accept some Sheikh's words he need to clarify specific things and address them accordingly. Since quite obviously Muslim scholars are neither Jewish or Christian, it is important to point out in their festivals what is wrong in greeting them with courtesy?

Knowledge you mentioned that they abrogated their faith. That is fine to believe that as I believe that Christianity and Judaism has changed over time. However, I also believe the people of Islam too has changed over time and we are today, unlike the Muslims of old. Like Jews and Christians Muslims too have different interpretations of the same doctrine. This is common of all humans especially because our perceptions of things vary. Scholars who issue these fatwas are obviously stuck on their own views of the world. They have not taken into consideration the Muslims in dominant Judeo-Christian countries where Christmas is highly comemrcialized (and Judaism is slowing following behind). So at our workplaces where Christmas is highlighted and the many "merry" co-workers we work with when greeted we should just remained quiet and ignore them?

Even with the whole thing of shaking hands has these Sheikhs so-called learned men know that it is rude culturally speaking to not shake hands especially in business transactions? Anyway according to knowledge's post I'm a hypocrite and sinner. I guess the literalist Muslims among us are quite convincing.

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As'Salamu Alaikum,

Sis Maryah, please do not bother if a member has got influenced by hinduism or Buddhist cultures. If you happen to see any post by its influence kindly point it instead of getting personal.

There is a verse in the fatwa you pasted.

"Allah Almighty says: "When you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or at least return it equally�) (An-Nisa� 4: 86)

Let me remind you that a verse can be understood when its supported by hadith. And this verse has taught us to greet when someone greets you. And how are we to greet is taught through the following hadith.

When you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or (at least) return it equally.


Imam Ahmad recorded that Abu Raja' Al-`Utaridi said that `Imran bin Husayn said that a man came to the Messenger of Allah and said, "As-Salamu `Alaykum''. The Prophet returned the greeting, and after the man sat down he said, "Ten.'' Another man came and said, "As-Salamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatullah, O Allah's Messenger.'' The Prophet returned the greeting, and after the man sat down he said, "Twenty.'' Then another man came and said, "As-Salamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatuh.'' The Prophet returned the greeting, and after the man sat down he said, "Thirty.'' This is the narration recorded by Abu Dawud. At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasa'i and Al-Bazzar also recorded it.

Like, Allah swt asks us to offer salah and the way of offering is  in hadith. Similarly with wuduh too. So the greeting shud be this and returned this way. Hope you get the answer.

Similarly the verse referred from Mumtahinah, is also out of context. Let me remind you all again that we are n't hating them. Ways to befreind them are many. But not the one which instead strenghthens there faith.

Kindly, go thru these links.

http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamO nline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=111950354336 8

http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?cid=11195035477 40&pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar%2FFatwaE%2FF atwaEAskTheScholar

http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?cid=11195035463 34&pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar%2FFatwaE%2FF atwaEAskTheScholar

These were the links we referred to during last discussions.

Sis Salams_wife, you are a revert. Those links i pasted above had  general rulings. You are new to Islam and its tough to switch on completly. Gradually, you shall insha-Allah get it changed. These were the links we read last time.

Today i heard Yassir Fazaga speaking over a topic, "When religion turns evil". It was worth listening. I wished you all could listen him. Am trying it to get it from youtube and insha-Allah link it. Anyways, one of the causes of religion turning evil was blind obedience of clergymen. What i mean to say is, we are presented with both the fatwas and opinions to celebrate or not to. Its upto you. When we are accountable, we cannot say that , "O Allah ! so and so asked me to do it and i did it". No!  We were given free-will. Just answer your conscience. It pricks you, when you are wrong. There is a hadith which states, when you are in doubt leave it. 

Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."
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Laylee, i respect your beliefs and that is your choice but I cannot help but feel you are wrapping yourself up in cotton wool, I'm sure you feel some kind of aniexty, just look now at mothers' day you say you won't celebrate it anymore?? I can see you now on the day making a concious effort in not doing anything for your mum for fear of doing something wrong in the eye of Allah because it now has somekind of religious context to it.
Angel, do mother's require a day to be greeted? Are they to wait for there children to greet?  We shall insha-Allah start up a thread - mother's day. We discussed it last months too . Islam has given first three positions all to a mother. We do have respect and love for our parents infact everyday. Anyways, insha-Allah , we shall start that thread today itself.

Imp 87 says

People dwell on Christmas and are right in many ways, like I said I also agree we should try to stay away from it, but what about the others, how do you, I, we or these people in question explain or what excuse do we have for the 100s of other things which could be classed as imitating others or the two I specifically asked, Saturday and Sunday holidays.

Thankyou brother for been soft in your approach at your post. Frankly speaking i don't know if every sunday and saturday get into this section of imitation. There are specific days in a year which fall on a Friday, Sunday or sat. But insha-Allah, i shall go deep into this subject as how are we to give an explanation over imitation. JazakAllahu Khair. 

There are many subjects cropping up from these discussions, which i fear may deviate the topic we are discussing on, so i feel to start threads elsewhere.

Subjects like, relationship with non-muslims, mothers day, and yours, {imitation }. Let me again remind that we are n't hating these non-muslims. Yes, there is a point at alevel where we are to argue or be harsh to them, but not at all times. Anyways, we shall discuss it as it may increase our knowledge over this subject so as to implement it. 



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Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."
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Originally posted by Israfil Israfil wrote:

layalee wrote:

As salaamu Alakum Brother Isafril

I think you gave a good counter-debate with your latest post. But I was curious in knowing more of your personal view( if you don't mind sharing with me). Do you think their is a difference in saying 'happy holidays' then 'Merry Christmas' to non-muslims? Do you think it's permissible for Musliims to use one the phrases, all of the phrases, on none of them?

Salaam

 

In my own personal view, there is a significant difference between wishing someone "Happy Holidays" and "Merry Christmas." With the former, you are acknowledging the fall Holidays which include (depending on the month and calendar) Happy Eid, Happy Hannakuh, Merry Christmas, and Happy New Years. Although Happy Holidays is quite general in the sense, it does not point out any significant Holiday in which the greeter gives respect to but acknowledges all the Holidays. With respect to the latter, we are being more specific and the greeting is more significant because we are acknowledging a specific religious holiday. Although one can say Merry Christmas and in their mind not have any intent on attributing their greeting in a religious way, but because Christmas is generally recognized as a religious holiday (and national one at that) it can be believed along the lines of being a religious one.

If one were to greet a person either or it depends on the intent as well as the circumstance. If you are simply being cordial and in your heart the greeting is strictly out of courtesy I don't see why either of the greetings matter. However, I would only agree with scholars with respect to not greeting someone a Merry Christmas only because the greeting may entail recognizing Christian beliefs. But, I would go to the extreme and say greeting someone a Merry Christmas is along the lines of worshiping the crucifix. No, that is more extreme than what I would say. I also wouldn't say that a Muslim would fall out of grace. These rhetorical statements are merely trying to scare the masses in being "pious." The problem with scholars on this subject is distinguishing what are appropriate and inappropriate greetings and how we can be courteous to Christians without offending them and overstepping our own religious boundaries.

JazakAllah Bro Israfil for letting know your views and am glad that u and minuteman did meet today , as even he says the same. Brother, there is a term  discussed in the Quran as 'footsteps of satan", its said do not follow the footsteps of satan. Satan is an open enemy. Today we feel its not wrong to greet. and next year, we feel we do not intend to celebrate but shall attend there and just stand, though we may not have wrong things, and next approach will be, oh its wrong to deny a friend and hurt him. This is called the trap of satan. We slowly follow his path and fail to realise that we are in trap. Look, its not that we are hating them or hurting them even. There are many other ways to get closer to them so as to convey our message.

Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."
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