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    Posted: 27 June 2008 at 7:55pm

I am currently reading the Qur�an, and I am hoping to find a venue where I can ask questions to get different perspectives.   Your comments are appreciated!

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YUSUFALI: "Our Lord! any whom Thou dost admit to the Fire, Truly Thou coverest with shame, and never will wrong-doers Find any helpers!

This passage got me thinking. I am interested in the relationship of those who do good and wrong-doers.  As an example, someone you love works against God � is to love them to help them?  Is that not against God�s Will? 

I could assume possible directions:  That you are held faultless as you yourself are good in God�s eyes, or that you are at fault if you do not make a decision to break off the relationship with the wrong-doer.  

Can love, in its most sincere form, be an affront to God in certain situations?

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Salam Qokitty
In the given verse, we are not ordered not to help unbelievers. The verse simply says that after the unbelievers are in hell, nothing will save them. At that time, they will not find any helpers. But in this world, we are encouraged to love and help unbelievers. The most genuine form of love and help would be to call them towards the righteous path. So if someone you love works against God, you can love them and help them, and the best form of help would be calling them towards God.
Hence the relationship between those who do good and wrong-doers is that those who do good call wrong doers to the right path. They try to convert wrong doers into good people. This form of love and help can never be an affront to God in any situation
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  assalamualaikum gokitty,

 In this beautiful verse of quran, Allah swt mentions the prayer of the righteous people, the people who are conscious about their lord and who intend to do good and make sure that by their acts they dont earn a sin or Allahs displeasure,these people earnestly strive to do good. they would never help anyone in doin acts of evil, for they will have a share in that evil done.
 
 in the verse:"our lord! any whom thou dost admist to the fire, truly thou coverest with shame,and never will wrongdoers find any helpers!", it is said that the wrongdoers will never find helpers, but the wrongdoers can have the other wrongdoers as helpers as long as they have a leave to do evil, ".........truly thou coverest with shame..." but they can never have helpers against Allah, when they are being punished by Him.truly they will b covered with shame n will face all the punishments being helpless!!

May Allah guide us all to righteous path. ameen
 
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Originally posted by gokitty gokitty wrote:

I am currently reading the Qur�an, and I am hoping to find a venue where I can ask questions to get different perspectives.   Your comments are appreciated!

AL-E-IMRAN 003.192
YUSUFALI: "Our Lord! any whom Thou dost admit to the Fire, Truly Thou coverest with shame, and never will wrong-doers Find any helpers!

This passage got me thinking. I am interested in the relationship of those who do good and wrong-doers.  As an example, someone you love works against God � is to love them to help them?  Is that not against God�s Will? 

I could assume possible directions:  That you are held faultless as you yourself are good in God�s eyes, or that you are at fault if you do not make a decision to break off the relationship with the wrong-doer.  

Can love, in its most sincere form, be an affront to God in certain situations?

 
Salam,
most of us deal with this reality on a day to day basis, I am not sure if we deal with it justly or not.
I think the major goal of life is to seek the pleasure of Allah, does that come at some cost, you bet.
Does that mean we cut off ties with eveyone we see doing wrong, that's a personal decision, if one seeks Allah's pleasure by participating with those who obey Allah or otherewise..........
I will use a real example here.
In a business deal I had a chance to make a lot of money by simply selling Jesus and virgin Mary's statues which are adored and prayed to by my Catholic customers. I decided not to be part of that act in anyway, so I decided against it, lost my business, no regret. Pleasure of Allah was priority for me, not His anger.
Quran is clear about whre to draw the line.
3:57....for God does not love evildoers
 
The danger of being in the company of evil doers is great by participating with them equals encouraging them, and a way of approvel of what they do, thus those acts don't seem so bad, and you know what happens next.
Quran Says: 6:129 And in this manner do We cause evildoers to seduce one another by means of their (evil] doings.
 
What do we do when we see a loved one walking toward a danger, we warn and stop them, because we don't want them to be hurt. We need to keep that in mind, as the loss of the hereafter is much much greater then the loss here.
Please correct me if I am wrong?
Hasan
 
 
 


Edited by honeto - 08 October 2008 at 6:48pm
The friends of God will certainly have nothing to fear, nor will they be grieved. Al Quran 10:62

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"Jesus and virgin Mary's statues which are adored and prayed to by my Catholic customers."
 
Catholics do not adore and pray to statues. Get your 'facts' straight Hasan.  That's exactly the same as me seeing you as adoring and worshipping the Ka-ba.
 
That's what it looks like, though I know it's not the reality.
 
You were wrong and in need of correction :-).
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Originally posted by Gulliver Gulliver wrote:

"Jesus and virgin Mary's statues which are adored and prayed to by my Catholic customers."
 
Catholics do not adore and pray to statues. Get your 'facts' straight Hasan.  That's exactly the same as me seeing you as adoring and worshipping the Ka-ba.
 
That's what it looks like, though I know it's not the reality.
 
You were wrong and in need of correction :-).
 
Gulliver,
I am surprised at your comments, how can I make such a mistake, my own wife is a former Catholic and Evangalist. In my Catholic side of family kneeling and praying in front of statues of Virgin Mary, Jesus or even Baby Jesus and of the Saints is a standard practice. I have lived among the Hispanic community near Mexican borader where most of the people are Catholics. They have statues of not just Jesus and Mary but many others too. To whom they adore, kneel and pray. Virgin de Gudalupe is the one famous in this area, so they have her statues, that is different then to say the Virgin of San Joan. They pray to her. Now if you ask them they say they are praying through her to God. But if you kneel down in front of a statue of virgin Mary, kiss it and pray, and not even turn around in front of them so your back would not face them (such is a disrespect to them), you are telling me that's not so?
What's the difference between a Hindu doing the same in front of one of their statues, and claiming the same?
 
Now as far as the Kaba, I have not seen it ( I hope I visit it one day) nor I have a miniature kaba in front of me when I pray to my maker, nor I try to picture it when I offer my Salath as my mind needs to be clear of all thoughts as I offer my Salath with my eyes open and mind alert with One thing in Mind that I am standing and bowing down in front of my creator Only. As I have said it in another thread, believers like myself has always prayed toward the first house of worship to God as a Universal Oness symbol. Once we the believers used to pray toward Jeruselam, when God ordered us to change as a test of believe in Him and His messanger, we followed that command.
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The friends of God will certainly have nothing to fear, nor will they be grieved. Al Quran 10:62

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That sounds like idolatry indeed, if that is how they pray in their hearts. 

 

It is not Catholicism in its truest sense however. Catholics do not believe that Mary is a goddess, as the Qu'ran seems to imply. Or that she is part of the 'trinity'. Catholics do not 'pray to' Mary as Creator. Nor to other 'saints'. Catholics believe all are the family of God - we are all brothers and sisters. The deceased do not lie in graves till Judgement Day. But are alive as God is, a 'God of the living, not the dead'. You follow Muhammad as a example of how to lead a good and holy life. A life that leads to God. In Catholicism Mary is seen as one who submitted wholly to God's will - her 'fiat' - her complete 'yes' to God, when she is asked by Gabriel to become the Mother of Jesus is whole submission. The 'immaculate heart' of Mary is about a heart 'purified' - cleansed of all attachment to wordly things, �sin� which is separateness from God. She is not attached to the creation above Creator - has a heart that beats for God Alone, the Creator above the Creation - submitting to his will in all things, and so loving all creatures, all creation as God intends it to be loved - with a 'pure heart', an 'immaculate heart'.

 

That is no different to the Muslim who seeks to have a heart utterly willing to submit to God in all things, as its greatest end and good. Jesus said, "those who do the will of My Father in Heaven are my mother, brother, sister." It's all about relationships. Family relationships. And Catholics believe that the 'dead' are not 'dead' - but alive in God.

 

Being perfectly submitted to God's will in 'heaven' - they cannot seek anything but God's will for those on earth. So if a person on earth were to seek their intercession - they are seeking the intercession of one wholly submitted to God's will. "Your will be done on earth as it is in Heaven."

 

Catholics believe that God wishes all the members of the 'family', member of the Body of Christ, help and support each other in all ways. It seems that there are different stages on the spriitual path - and different stages in prayer life. It is true that in the past Catholics were so afraid of the wrath filled, judge God - that they feared approach God for anything. So they turn to the maternal - the mother of Jesus as intercessor. That was very wrong as it could seem to turn people from God - scare them from God, as far as I am concerned, anything that does this is very wrong.

 

I could go on and on and on here Hasan. It's like your own faith and beliefs. I don't understand 99.9% of it - and often, it's like listening to a foreign language, getting to grips with that first - 'fore you can begin to understand what the Muslim believes or does not believe.

 

God is the Creator - Master of all Creation - Lord of the Worlds. We are told to seek God in and through the Creation. Unless God deigns to give us a direct heavenly revelation of some sort. I believe that people praying - what can seem like idolatry - may well indeed be them finding God through the Creation - be it in the emulation of Mumammad, Mary or anyone else. If the heart is sincerely praying to God - even through a �creation� - then isn't God big enough, and good enough to lead that heart and soul ultimately to Himself.  I believe so. I have seen in my own life. I pray to God �through� a �creation� � my self. We must be very careful indeed it seems to me H, how we judge others, and how they do or do not pray. God alone sees the heart and will guide it as God wills.

 

If I were to consider Mary in my prayer life. I'd not pray 'to' Mary, or 'through' Mary. But 'with' Mary in praising God. I do pray TO God though as Creator, as God Alone is Creator.

 

"My soul doth magnify the Lord

My spirit exults in God my saviour.......     " etc

 

I see where you are coming from Hasan, and can see why you'd be concerned. I also see and know too however by what you have said, that you have not made a serious study of Catholic theology. You are judging something without the 'facts'. Same as me judging Muslims, or Islam �cause of the behaviours of certain groups or individuals - without going off and finding out the reality for myself.

 

The only problem with all of that is we only have one short life time. And it would take about fifty thousand at least to read everything written on all of these religions. lol

 

�The last shall be first and the first shall be last�. Mary was least in this world, but raised high in Heaven. The Qu'ran seems to suggest something like this too. But even being raised to the greatest of heights - they retain their humblest origins. It's like God - paradox.

 

There are reported 'apparitions' of Mary thoughout the world over the centuries - coming to call humanity back to God. Guadaluope being one of them. I know there is much controversy over these within Christianity and even Catholicism iteself. I am not saying they are true or not. Just interesting. One is more recent in Yougoslavia. Mary comes to ask people to repentance, prayer, fasting and conversion of heart. To deepen the life of faith and ask it be given to the �unbelievers�.  Prayer for 'unbelievers' is strongly emphasised. One time apparently, the young people who reportedly 'see' Mary, are asked by her to fast two days a week. God wishes people to fast as a healthy spiritual discipline.  They ask her about this. It is said that Mary looks towards a  Muslim woman in the crowd and says, "if she can do it, so can you." Another time they ask her who is the 'holiest' person in the village at a given time. Apparently Mary points to a little Muslim woman in the group assembled and speaks about her humilty being more pleasing to God than that of any other there at that time.

 

I dunno about the reality/truth of any of this. But God is bigger than all of us and our perceptions - and even our 'religions' I am sure.

 

I just feel it is presumption indeed - pride,  that leads us to a place where we feel we have any right to judge the state of a heart/soul before its Creator. I could tell you Hasan that your description of prayer sounds to me like you pray to a big Nothing. Just what it might SEEM like, not the reality.

 

 

I had a letter from a friend in South Africa this morning. He is a 'born again' Evangelical Christian. To the core. Great man don't get me wrong, and does brilliant work with young people who've been seriously damaged in life. He and I had a few battles over what it may or may not mean to 'pray', 'worship', 'adore' and love God. Like you - he saw Catholics as 'born again' pagan idolators. All I said to him was that he had no right to judge the heart of any human being, and presume to know the relationship that person may or may not have had with the Creator.  We sat last month and just chatted. I told him what Christianity meant for me � what Christ meant for me and what I was raised to believe, whether I now believed it or not. He never opened his mouth.

 

My friend wrote this to me. He is at home in SA for a holiday:

 

"Love driving around the mountain and just chilling out - sunsets are
beautiful, almost spiritual; I could sense God's greatness and power
so easily

I have also adopted a much more flexible and tolerant approach in
terms of one's relationship with God - I have realised that I am not
able to judge at all - everyone has a unique connection with God in
his / her own way - a connection I would not be able to understand."

 

We�re all ignorant of so many things, things known to God Alone. I just feel we need to be careful how we judge others, intentionally or not.  ï¿½The road to hell is paved with good intentions.� 

 

God bless Hasan

 

I don�t know what�s true or not. Just have to �resign� it all to �God�s will� so much of the time.

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