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rayhena
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Posted: 15 May 2009 at 7:01am |
assasalamalaikum, i am a muslim sister who is infertile really want a baby, im going to hospitals but i have a fear coz sum hospitals medication has side effects plz does ne1 no ne dua for concieving, i always pray and asking allah s.w.t to fulfil my wish, plz everyone make dua 4 me dat allah makes me pregnant soon, ok look forward to hearing from ne1.
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Niesa
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Salam sister.im new at this.All we can do is make Dua.Myself I'm also struggling for 6 years with infertility.The pain you are going through I know how painful it is.I also need advice and people's Dua.But no one can give us except The Almighty.InshaAllah our time will come.Today is 1 of my positive days.
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rayhena
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thank u sister niesa for your message, i no no1 can giv us wat we want except 4 allah, i am always praying to allah to fulfil my wish giv me da most precious thing in da world. dont worry sister u r in my dua inshallah u will get wat u want from allah. i no sum duas if u want to recite, its- Rabbi la tazarni fardan wa anta khairul warisin. it means " o my lord do not keep me single without offspring, u r the only lord. perform as many nafl nomaz as u can sister and recite diz dua everytime inshallah allah will accept ur dua, and also if u want to fast i did it aswell recently so inshallah hpe it wrks u fast for 7 days and when u break ur fast with water say AL Baariul Musawweru 21 times after drinking ur water. dats all i no sister. best thing i no is just keep paitint and ur trust in allah and always make dua inshallah allah will fulfill ur wish, allahs here 4 everyone, dont worry too much just keep ur trust in allah. tc sister assalamalikum xx
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Niesa
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Shukran dear sister.Im a second wife and my co-wife has 5 kids. To say the least im feeling a failure sometimes as a women.But my dear hub said that i shudnt b so negative.His children regards me as their other mother.they live in India and me South Africa.Insha Allah mayb next year they will come.It would be easier for me if when I meet first wife I will have a child.The longing for a child of my own is very painful.People always say don't stress it will happen.Easier said then done.How do you cope when it gets to much the pain?
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rayhena
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i undastand ur pain sister, i feel da same way aswell if i hear or see anyone pregnant or wid kids i feel very upset n say to allah wen will he give me da most precious thing in da world, just be paitient sister me n u we cant have a baby until allah givs us da chance to become a mum. i used to stress aswell of wats wrong wid me wen will i get pregnant now i stopped, im being paitient and keeping my trust in allah wen da time comes allah will eventually fulfil our wish, pray and ask for forgiveness to allah and keep faith in allah dont get stressed out it wont be good for ur health wen you are trying for a baby jus be paitient inshallah allah will help u.
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Danty
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May Allah make it easy for both you Rayhena and Niesa! You both and all of my sisters are in my duaa.
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Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said "Be kind, for whenever kindness becomes part of something, it beautifies it.Whenever it is taken from something, it leaves it tarnished." (IMAM BUKHARI)
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rayhena
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thank u sister alhamdullah inshallah allah helps us all sisters who are in desperate need for a precious gift.
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Ferzana
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Oh dear Sister...i trully understand what you are going through!! I am going through the same emotional turmoin and it is like a roller coaster ride. Sometime I reach my breaking point and break down. I wish I know the instant remedy...but i do not have. Why dont you do a lot of hajat prayers every night. Insya'Allah I am planning to also. I will include u in my dua...pls include me too, dear sister. May Allah Bless us with that child that we have already fallen in love with.
p.s. please all dua for us. :(
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