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Angel 
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 Posted: 18 April 2006 at 5:55am |
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Yes, a mistake that many many women make About the pet issue, since you have only a year, what about a couple of fishes Your mission if you choose to take it: Write a list of all the things you can do. Another list with all the things you want to do, like the aquaruim. And do them, ok you can't have a pet, so don't add that, perhaps the fishes thou. What about painting/drawing. Crafty things like sewing/knitting/croching/card making etc. These do require some money. If you don't want to spend a lot, are there things around the house that you can use, or go to a community course where its not that expensive. write a list of free things you can do and see and do them. |
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amah
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Posted: 18 April 2006 at 6:17am |
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We all have high expectations when we get married, I had too!
 Unfortunately some men do not understand certain needs. Like spending quality time with wives and doing fun things, it strengthens our relationship. But don't fret sis! Make loads of dua to Allah to inspire your husband, it always works! Saying from personal experience! And yes, try to keep yourself busy by involving yourself in things the sisters have suggested. Also i guess men like women, who do a little things on their own (would the brothers reading this, agree??) so go out and enjoy yourself, we pray your husband will soon join you!! Take care.........may Allah make it easy for you!....wassalam ps- keeping fish at home as pets sounds lovely to me!! |
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Allah is Sufficient as a Walee (Protector) and Allah is Sufficient as a Naseer (Helper).
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amah
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Posted: 18 April 2006 at 6:20am |
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I too would love to keep a cat as a pet, but my husband would not allow it........so i just decided that i love my husband more than cats so i have to let go of cats!!
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Allah is Sufficient as a Walee (Protector) and Allah is Sufficient as a Naseer (Helper).
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Hayfa
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Posted: 18 April 2006 at 9:40am |
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One thing I do is I voulnteer at the local animal shelter a couple of hours a week. Even if you cannot have a pet you can do a good thing by helping out. The kitties and dogs need attention. Their lives are tough and it can do a world of good to give them some attention. Dogs, from what I understand are generally unclean. So I just shower when I return home.
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ak_m_f
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Posted: 18 April 2006 at 9:48am |
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I agree volunteering is the best, I did volunteering for like 6 months. Its not becaue I was bored, its because you need damn 48 hours to graduate from high school.
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Danty
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Posted: 18 April 2006 at 10:17pm |
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Dear Sister,
I hope that your situation gets better inshallah. As I had read your post, I thought of something that you can do if your husband wouldn't mind. Since you like dogs, there are some people that wouldn't mind if you could walk their dog or dogs. (Some elderly people or even some people just don't always have time to walk their dog much). Or if some people in your neighborhood needs someone to watch their animals while they are out of town, you can try it! You could make flyers or put an advertisement in the paper on whatever you want to decide. Sister, please be strong in your situation. May Allah help you and your husband have a good future ahead of you. |
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Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said "Be kind, for whenever kindness becomes part of something, it beautifies it.Whenever it is taken from something, it leaves it tarnished." (IMAM BUKHARI)
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Moona
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Posted: 20 April 2006 at 1:38pm |
  Well! I Finally did it! After my husband left for work today,I got in my car,and drove the 45 minute drive to the aquarium! I had a lovely time. I sat and watched the sea turtles,sharks,and other sea creatures.I had fun! I wish my husband could have come with me,but really I think I had a better time without him.I love him tons,but he can be a drag sometimes.If he isnt having fun,I cant have a good time either. I think the aquarium just isnt his thing. Anyway,I am going to find other fun things to do,maybe sometime's he will join me,but if he doesnt want to,or cant,I will go alone. Thanks everyone for your encouragement!  ---Moona
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Angela
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Posted: 20 April 2006 at 1:41pm |
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Good for you, I love seahorses. (Did you know in Sea Horses the males give birth????) Moona.....have you ever tried a pottery class or another crafting class. They usually meet only like once a week or month?
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