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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote MissNomad Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 21 August 2006 at 7:31pm

Angel, you're one to mouth off at others. I recall you and Patty at each other's throats not too long ago at the Pond.  And out of the two, Patty was by far the worst with her remarks  - pity you didn't catch all the nuances but we wont go there...you're better of living in la la land.

Still I hope you have fun at the Pond.  Just poked my head in after a long absence [I'm sure I was missed] - sheesh, you'd get my dialogue out of a morgue.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Angel Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 22 August 2006 at 2:17am

MissNomad...how you've been  you must've missed me to come online and make a comment

Herjihad....no comment. [just shaking my head in dismay]

 

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Angela Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 22 August 2006 at 12:16pm

The line was you made a statement that was factually wrong, she not only corrected you, but listed a source to do so....and you attacked her by saying it was personal and that if you were a moderator you'd have her banned.

Really, you're going off about Patty and Angel being rude, yet Hanan and  you have been twice as rude as they have.  Frankly, its disappointing and hypocritical.

Patty and Angel have been members of this board for longer than you, Hanan and me combined.  They have long ago proven themselves and most of those complaining about them haven't been here that long.

Colin, Mishmish, Khadija and Patty have all left.  Daniel is on his way out... I'm really considering following.  Because of Daniel Dworsky has decided this place has gone that far, then of all those here, I respect his opinion most of all.

When people are able to make statements that are so totally offensive like the one Daniel stumbled on by Whisper.  I really have to wonder where adab went.  Its certainly missing here. 

There are a few western non muslims here that have come out of friendship.  Not to slander, not to convert, but to work on Olive Branches.  Does that mean they have to give up their beliefs in God, Prophets or Jesus?  NO!  It just means that they would like a better world. 

You have accused Patty of racism and hatred.  The only thing I've seen her express hatred towards are those that kill innocents. 

The biggest problem I've seen with those here recently, is you cannot separate friend from foe.  Frankly, that scares me.  Because if sane, faithful men and women can't tell the difference, then how am I ever going to feel safe. 

Over the last few days, I really have had to wonder this very question.  Are even the non believer friends of Muslims safe when their hatred turns against others?

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ZEA  J Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 22 August 2006 at 5:04pm
Originally posted by Angela Angela wrote:

Colin, Mishmish, Khadija and Patty have all left.  Daniel is on his way out... I'm really considering following.  Because of Daniel Dworsky has decided this place has gone that far, then of all those here, I respect his opinion most of all 

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spend of that which you love."(Al-Imran:92)
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote herjihad Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 22 August 2006 at 6:33pm
Originally posted by Angela Angela wrote:

The line was you made a statement that was factually wrong, she not only corrected you, but listed a source to do so....and you attacked her by saying it was personal and that if you were a moderator you'd have her banned.

Really, you're going off about Patty and Angel being rude, yet Hanan and  you have been twice as rude as they have.  Frankly, its disappointing and hypocritical.

Patty and Angel have been members of this board for longer than you, Hanan and me combined.  They have long ago proven themselves and most of those complaining about them haven't been here that long.

Colin, Mishmish, Khadija and Patty have all left.  Daniel is on his way out... I'm really considering following.  Because of Daniel Dworsky has decided this place has gone that far, then of all those here, I respect his opinion most of all.

When people are able to make statements that are so totally offensive like the one Daniel stumbled on by Whisper.  I really have to wonder where adab went.  Its certainly missing here. 

There are a few western non muslims here that have come out of friendship.  Not to slander, not to convert, but to work on Olive Branches.  Does that mean they have to give up their beliefs in God, Prophets or Jesus?  NO!  It just means that they would like a better world. 

You have accused Patty of racism and hatred.  The only thing I've seen her express hatred towards are those that kill innocents. 

The biggest problem I've seen with those here recently, is you cannot separate friend from foe.  Frankly, that scares me.  Because if sane, faithful men and women can't tell the difference, then how am I ever going to feel safe. 

Over the last few days, I really have had to wonder this very question.  Are even the non believer friends of Muslims safe when their hatred turns against others?

Bismillah,

Angela,

I'm not even going to discuss this matter with you because since you considered me a friend until you say I "crossed the line" and haven't contacted me about anything, I don't think that that is friendly behavior.  As I have said before, you should communicate with me about this because that is what a friend would do.

If you want to leave, that is your choice.   Fee Aman Illah.

Salaamu Alaykum

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Angela Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 22 August 2006 at 6:43pm
Maybe if you'd answer your phone I would have. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote herjihad Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 22 August 2006 at 6:52pm

Originally posted by Angela Angela wrote:

Maybe if you'd answer your phone I would have. 

Bismillah,

  Thanks for calling.  Now please stop posting stuff like this here.  Pm, e-mail, leave a message. 

Salaamu Alaykum

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote aslam Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 23 August 2006 at 1:26am

My suggestion is trite but its the most appropriate - no personal attack under any circumstances (even out of  retailiation, moderator should be referred than).

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