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gumus 
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 Posted: 10 August 2008 at 12:02am |
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Regarding dropping Fard salat, I was told that by an elder and I went to an Islamic Mualimah to confirm it and she said yes that you are required to drop Fard salat.
I would recomend sisters to not disclose their identities when discussing embaressing or private matters as regard to privacy.
But I feel it's a good idea for brothers to browse through as they can learn important stuff by reading our problems and see them through Muslimas perspective. As I know they go through opinions of non-islamic women in answer yahoo. They get wrong ideas from those women as alot of them are liking stuff we can't stand like pornography and oral sex.
I feel our brothers don't realize our problems as we can't share them openly.
In Islamic seminars on marriage these things are said openly by scholars, regards to intimacy and correct manners and boundries.
Forums are excellent as long as our identities are not revealed.
Brothers think that the dirty stuff they see on the media is liked by all women, also the dirty stuff that unislamic women write about online. They fall into snare of those who control the media with the intention of corrupting the ummah and end up suffering for the rest of their lives.
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Shasta'sAunt
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Posted: 10 August 2008 at 1:43am |
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"Regarding dropping Fard salat, I was told that by an elder and I went to an Islamic Mualimah to confirm it and she said yes that you are required to drop Fard salat."
But where did they get this information from? There must be an Ayat or a Hadith for it to be authentic. If they told you this is true they should give you the proof: the Ayat or Hadith that states it is true. Since we have not read or heard this before we are asking for the proof.
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Hayfa
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Posted: 10 August 2008 at 4:43pm |
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Yes please do find the Ayat or Hadith.. I hear all kinds of stuff.. and without the proof.. well..
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lovesakeenah
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Posted: 11 August 2008 at 3:21am |
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Yes,sis."No pun intended"!!!!
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"I have conviction that Allah has power over everything.Verily!Allah's knowledge includes and encompasses everything".
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Hayfa
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Posted: 11 August 2008 at 8:08am |
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I checked with someone very knowledgeable in Islam and he said the only case of this is if a woman is doing a VOLUNTARY fast, she may be aked to drop this fast. That is why wives should cobfer with husbands if it is a good day to fast...
But not for required fast or required prayer.
On dozens of web sites I have been on that discuss missing Fard prayers... none have EVER listed that you should drop it to have relations so to speak with husband.
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Chrysalis
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Posted: 11 August 2008 at 10:31am |
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With all due respect, just because so-and-so says something, even if they be 'knowledgeable' so to speak, it is not to be believed immediately, until there is a surety. There are certain scholars out there that I readily believe, because I know for a fact that they always have a backing source.
The only reason why I mentioned that is because sometimes ppl confuse culture/traditions with Islam.
I know the Nifal Fast (unobligatory Fast) can be broken for sexual purposes - but I dont think it applies to Fard Salaat. Whenever I've read about 'breaking/postponing' Fard Salaat, the reason has always been an emergency, or inconvenience, or safety etc. Which is why I asked.
I agree. Also, I think if there is a place where everyone can easily follow proper Islamic ettiquette and still discuss delicate issues . . . it is the internet. Where else do we expect Muslim brothers to know about cerain pertinent issues firsthand? Surely not in person . . . .
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Chrysalis
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Posted: 13 August 2008 at 10:20am |
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just an observation! this thread got 1138 views! pretty high, eh? :)
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Hayfa
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Posted: 13 August 2008 at 6:59pm |
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who are all those people??? lol
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