I’m so BORED!

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   When I had my Lab,I didnt keep her in the house all the time.We got alot of exercise together,taking long five mile hikes together.Or just playing outside and letting her run alot.She was my outlet to the world.I have some sad new's. My fish died this morning. I know it was my fault,I know what I did wrong,so I might just clean the tank and get another Goldfish next week. Or maybe I'll set the tank up to hold water turtles.

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Moona Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Joined: 11 April 2006 Status: Offline Points: 48	Post Options Post Reply Quote Moona Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 03 May 2006 at 5:24pm
	When I had my Lab,I didnt keep her in the house all the time.We got alot of exercise together,taking long five mile hikes together.Or just playing outside and letting her run alot.She was my outlet to the world.I have some sad new's. My fish died this morning. I know it was my fault,I know what I did wrong,so I might just clean the tank and get another Goldfish next week. Or maybe I'll set the tank up to hold water turtles.
	Moonie

herjihad Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 26 January 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2473	Post Options Post Reply Quote herjihad Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 03 May 2006 at 8:18pm
	Bismillah, Dear Sister Moona, We've had a lot of goldfish over the years. They can be hardy and they can die easily. Keep trying. And i personally would stick with goldfish or other inexpensive small ones because you can buy more. Betas don't like the small containers people provide for them. We put a betas in full size, 10 gallon fish tanks, and they were much happier than in the small vases. (You can tell by observing them!)
	Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.

Moona Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Joined: 11 April 2006 Status: Offline Points: 48	Post Options Post Reply Quote Moona Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 04 May 2006 at 1:12pm
	I've had Beta's too,and I'm like you.People assume that Beta's like a small space because (I think)they are sold in store's in small containers. But really,what animal LIKE'S to be contained in a small space? People can be silly sometimes. Last month (or more)I had a Beta,....I've had more fish die on me than I can EVEN count anymore,lol. And I cry Everytime a fish die's. Maybe I'm silly,but I love taking care of them so much,and when they die,it makes me sad. This last Goldfish was so strong, I just knew he would make it.Then I messed up,and he died. Well,that's the way it goes sometimes. Maybe I'll try a turtle. What I'm trying to say is that I am not giving up!
	Moonie

Moona Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Joined: 11 April 2006 Status: Offline Points: 48	Post Options Post Reply Quote Moona Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 14 May 2006 at 1:01pm
	Now that the weather is nice,I'm going every other day to a beautiful park where you can hike five miles around this gorgeous lake. I hike no matter what.If I'm angrey,I hike very hard and get all my anger out.(This morning my husband got angrey with me for what I felt was a stupid reason,so I hiked HARD today.)I get great exercise,and it reduce's my stress level. Sometimes when I hike,I plan a whole new life without him.Then I come home relaxed in my mind,body and spirit. I want to be more strong with him regarding our finance's.(I.E.My paying for all our bills from my income)I need to start being more strong in this area with him.
	Moonie

aya918 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 19 June 2007 Location: Jordan Status: Offline Points: 6	Post Options Post Reply Quote aya918 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 20 June 2007 at 12:38am
	its good to keep urself occupied the way that u have been especially if u dont have ur husbands companionship. but my problem lies with ur working and his not working as much. its not ur job to build ur dream house--its his. u should quit ur job. although i realize u will probably be more bored, this will maybe force him to work more and stop wasting countless hours sleeping and watching t.v....good luck!