Women against men

Lameese, I was laughing at the shock therapy comment.  Nothing more....the quote thing did not work right.  Calm down and read the smily as being for you and the Berg comment as a response to Bro123.  I was not laughing at your comments.  I respect you too much for that.

As for the "christians" in Abu Graib, I highly doubt any of those numbskulls were Christian.  They were questionable characters to begin with.  I agree their actions were hideous, and I would never think such actions were appropriate.  I personally think that those soldiers are not getting a harsh enough punishment.  I also believe that Guantanomo Bay is a violation of our constitution and basic human rights.  No matter how the White House spins it. 

As for the Prophets marriage, I read in a post she might not be as young as what some believe.  But, I do not believe that Mohammed married any of his wives because of sexual desire.  He seemed to truly love them from what I've read so far.  Your right, Aisha, was a political marriage first and foremost.  Young marriage is good as long as both people are mature enough to understand the commitment and to financially be independent of their families.  I agree with you that 18-21 is a good range to begin looking at marriage as a viable option.  I was 23.  My sister was 21.  But, I have a friend who married at 17 and her marriage failed before its 2 anniversary.  She was not mature enough to handle adulthood, let alone marriage and employment.  I guess, it goes on the individual to decide if they are ready and the families to consel whats best for all. 

The marriages I worry the most about are young women and much older men.  I have seen a number of these marriages and they never seem to be healthy.  Either the husband is controlling and domineering, only looking as his wife like some sexual trophy or the wife is so immature, the husband is constantly battling with an extra child in the house.  That is why I asked him to define a little closer what he meant by a girl should be married so young?  You are literally talking about two different things depending on the age separation between spouses, especially with the woman being underage.

Anyway, that's how I feel.

Brother123 wrote: Kim we are awake. But when are you non-muslims going to wake up?

Open your eyes. God gave you cloths to cover up and not walk naked or half naked.

Didn't Adam and Eve walked naked in the garden of Eden before their fall ?? 

According to the Quran the One who believes in islam is not equal to the one who disblieves in Islam.

sooooooooo you saying that muslims are more superior than non muslims ??

Dayem wrote: sooooooooo you saying that muslims are more superior than non muslims ?? Course they r; u hv any problem?

yeah i do, is that a problem ?

I don't think you read his point either.

brother123 said according to the quran, one who believe is not equal to one who disbelieves, he thinks he is much better because he believes, in other words it is like say that a believer is more superior than a non believer.

Every one is equal, we are all human beings, what one believes or not does not really change that, you are no better than I, and I am no better than you but that is not what is being said here. get it ?

Why are you or muslims better than the next who may not believe in islam ?

I know the definition of muslim.