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    Posted: 27 October 2008 at 7:18am
"It quite specifically says "friends" in every authoritative translation I have seen; and it says nothing at all about "matters of faith and guidance".  The Pooya/Ali commentary says, "A believer, in order to keep himself safe from the influence of falsehood, must avoid the company of disbelievers."  I'm sorry, SA, but the meaning of this verse is quite clear.  You can't make it mean whatever you want it to mean."
 
Yes any parent Christian, Jew, Muslim would not want their children to "hangout" with satan worshippers, hypocrites that twist their faith, etc.
 
My children went to a public school and actually met up and befriended wiccans!!  I tell you I spent many a worried night.  Luckily my children and I have always had a very open dialoque and we were able to work through the whole thing- they remained Christian and eventually the wiccan friends fell away.   
 
Disbelievers of what? This specifically means belief in God. What other context could it possibly have? Belief in God is a matter of faith, pure and simple. There is no other meaning here.
 
If you look elsewhere in The Quran it does not forbid Muslims from associating with or being friends with non-Muslims. The Prophet's most beloved uncle who raised him was not a Muslim. Most of the early followers of Islam had family members who were not Muslims. Instead of telling Muslims to stay away from their family the Quran tells Muslims to honor their parents, whatever their faith.
 
When the early Muslims were being persecuted and killed The Prophet sent them to King Negus in Abyssinia, a Christian ruler, for protection. He sent them there because King Negus was known for being just and truthful. Twice the Muslims turned to King Negus for protection, and both times they were welcome in the kingdom and lived in peace.
 
This was clearly a case where the Muslims sought out a Christian as a protector, but one who was known far and wide as a king who practiced justice and truthfulness. If it had been forbidden by God for Muslims to seek friendship or protection from any Christian or Jew The Prophet Mohammed would never have sent the Muslims to King Negus for protection.
 
Anyone who knows the basics of Islam knows this part of history, that is why we understand the verse in question.
 
I have been studying Islam for 4 years and had never heard this story, thank you shasta!  I should add studying Islam from Quran and just spatterings of hadith.
 
I know there still are many Muslims out there that do not understand the verse the same way the Muslims on this forum do, please keep spreading the word.
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Believer, go away....
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5:51 - Muhammad Asad

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5:51 O YOU who have attained to faith! Do not take the Jews and the Christians for your allies: they are but allies of one another [72] and whoever of you allies himself with them becomes, verily, one of them; behold, God does not guide such evildoers. [73]

Note 72 (Quran Ref: 5:51 )

According to most of the commentators (e.g., Tabari), this means that each of these two communities extends genuine friendship only to its own adherents-i.e., the Jews to the Jews, and ,the Christians to the Christians-and cannot, therefore, be expected to be really friendly towards the followers of the Qur'an. See also 8:73, and the corresponding note.(Quran Ref: 5:51 )

Note 73 (Quran Ref: 5:51 )

Lit., "the evildoing folk": i.e., those who deliberately sin in this respect. As regards the meaning of the "alliance" referred to here, see 3:28, and more particularly 4:139 and the corresponding note, which explains the reference to a believer's loss of his moral identity if he imitates the way of life of, or-in Qur'anic terminology-"allies himself" with, non-Muslims. However, as has been made abundantly clear in 60:7-9 (and implied in verse 57 of this surah), this prohibition of a "moral alliance" with non-Muslims does not constitute an injunction against normal, friendly relations with such of them as are well-disposed towards Muslims. It should be borne in mind that the term wali has several shades of meaning: "ally", "friend", "helper", "protector", etc. The choice of the particular term - and sometimes a -combination of two terms-is always dependent on the context.(Quran Ref: 5:51 )

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We should never lose the sight of the context and the language of the Qur'an, including the help of the experts in the field.

 

Here is an important point in Note 73 above:

 

"However, as has been made abundantly clear in 60:7-9 (and implied in verse 57 of this surah), this prohibition of a "moral alliance" with non-Muslims does not constitute an injunction against normal, friendly relations with such of them as are well-disposed towards Muslims."

 
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Originally posted by believer believer wrote:

Yes any parent Christian, Jew, Muslim would not want their children to "hangout" with satan worshippers, hypocrites that twist their faith, etc.

Nobody is talking about children, let alone Satan worshippers or hypocrites.  Although I have to say that your concern for your children is overblown.  I regard the opportunity for children to meet and interact with others of different faiths as a good thing, a necessary part of the education system.  If Islam is the truth, then all you need to do is teach your children to recognize the truth.

Originally posted by Shasta'sAunt Shasta'sAunt wrote:

Disbelievers of what? This specifically means belief in God. What other context could it possibly have? Belief in God is a matter of faith, pure and simple. There is no other meaning here.

Belief in God is a matter of faith, but friendship is not (well, maybe faith of a different kind).  It would be tempting to suppose that any reference to "believers" would mark the whole passage as applicable only to matters of faith (e.g., "when you meet the unbelievers, smite the necks [of their faith]..."), but I don't think anyone would buy it.

Quote This was clearly a case where the Muslims sought out a Christian as a protector, but one who was known far and wide as a king who practiced justice and truthfulness. If it had been forbidden by God for Muslims to seek friendship or protection from any Christian or Jew The Prophet Mohammed would never have sent the Muslims to King Negus for protection.

And yet he did, and yet the verse clearly forbids it.  The case you are talking about occurred early in Muhammad's career, when he was still weak and in need of alliances.  Sura 5 (which we are discussing) was revealed much later, after Muhammad became strong enough to repudiate those alliances.

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Believer, go away....

Believer was asked to take this discussion to a separate thread, and so he did.  Unfortunately, he put it in the "Islam for non-Muslims" section, which is really intended for education, not debate.  I don't suppose a moderator could move it?

Originally posted by peacemaker peacemaker wrote:

According to most of the commentators (e.g., Tabari), this means that each of these two communities extends genuine friendship only to its own adherents-i.e., the Jews to the Jews, and ,the Christians to the Christians-and cannot, therefore, be expected to be really friendly towards the followers of the Qur'an.
...this prohibition of a "moral alliance" with non-Muslims does not constitute an injunction against normal, friendly relations with such of them as are well-disposed towards Muslims

Exactly.  In other words, we can be civil and polite to one another ("normal, friendly relations") but we can never be really friendly.

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Believer was asked to take this discussion to a separate thread, and so he did.  Unfortunately, he put it in the "Islam for non-Muslims" section, which is really intended for education, not debate.  I don't suppose a moderator could move it?
 
I don't care where he post his views, his appearence is simply annoying to put it nicely.
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To anyone who thinks the verse prohibits friendship,

Without arrogance and only in the spirt of qualifying the below:
I speak and read Arabic. Unlike the second hand information Ron will call authoritative, I don't have it translated/interpreted/read for me, and I didn't learn it as some arabic-illiterate being fed knowledge at the end of the Saudi spoon.

In my life, wali is never used for friend. Never.
In everyday speech: It is used (if it is used) nowadays to refer to impressive leader type (Sids, Moulays, Grand Imams, etc.) Moulay Idriss the second, who founded Fes and was part of Morocco's first dynasty is an example of someone one would call a wali. A modern example of a wali in this context could be the king as well as the Prime Minister Abbas El Fassi. The word also implies a spiritual guide of sorts, to distinguish from someone who was strictly just a leader.

Words that are used to describe friend.love: saHeeb, sadiq, aziz, hub.

Again, I have never heard the word wali used in any other context than that of a 'master'-type.

I do sympathize with people who have their Quran pre-chewed by the Saudi army of interpreters; they are sure to get the most vitriolic reading out of them.   

Finally, in practicality - it should be understood that although the jews and christians are not the majority here in Morocco - they are not shunned, antagonized or considered beneath befriending; the story of Andr� Azoulay as a generic starting point for 'wali-like' Jews here and the Village of Hope for Christians.

Ron, though at sober times, you seem like good egg. But you certainly have nothing to teach anyone here about Islam - so there is no point in you defending it... in regards to our defense, we'll all be fine without you, thanks.

Believer, you seem mean.
Either that, you are incapable of sustaining critical thought to grasp what has put before you.
In this case, you'd probably rather find yourself the first of the two.

** regarding the above arabic words, I am referring to the trilateral roots of wali, shb, etc. and all of their permutations.    

*** Ron, at least stop misquoting Burke, esp. since the bogus attribution was pointed out in an earlier post. You can be forgiven for being a lazy, sloppy thinker in a foreign language, but you're not getting a pass in english.












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Originally posted by Jamal Morelli Jamal Morelli wrote:

In my life, wali is never used for friend. Never.
In everyday speech: It is used (if it is used) nowadays to refer to impressive leader type (Sids, Moulays, Grand Imams, etc.) Moulay Idriss the second, who founded Fes and was part of Morocco's first dynasty is an example of someone one would call a wali.

Are you seriously suggesting that 5:51 is a warning to Muslims not to take Christians and Jews for "impressive leaders"? Confused

Yusuf Ali spoke fluent Arabic.  So did Marmaduke Picktall.  Same with Muhammad Asad.  With all due respect, why should I believe you and not those three renowned translators?

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I think some times we just have to lift our head up, open our eyes and look around. The answers are there. Look at those leaders of Muslim countries who has given themselves up into the protection of none-believers and what is happening in the result. May be its a warning against. May be that's what it means!
Beause as a human, as people even prophet has realations with Christians and Jews, so do many of us. It has to do with what I said above most probably.
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Edited by honeto - 28 October 2008 at 6:41pm
The friends of God will certainly have nothing to fear, nor will they be grieved. Al Quran 10:62

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