Is it allowed for to look at educational sex dvd

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   Hello, me and my wife have been having meetings with a sex therepist who is helping us have a better sex life because my wife has a medical condition. The therepist recommended looking at an educational sex dvd for positions. Is this allowed in Islam?

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si_d_2003 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Male Joined: 18 October 2010 Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote si_d_2003 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Is it allowed for to look at educational sex dvd Posted: 18 October 2010 at 3:47pm
	Hello, me and my wife have been having meetings with a sex therepist who is helping us have a better sex life because my wife has a medical condition. The therepist recommended looking at an educational sex dvd for positions. Is this allowed in Islam?

abuayisha Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuayisha Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 19 October 2010 at 7:53pm
	Is it possible the therapist could maybe illustrate using dolls during your meetings?

si_d_2003 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Male Joined: 18 October 2010 Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote si_d_2003 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 20 October 2010 at 4:35pm
	not really because i cannot attend them due to work. the appointment is also not very long soshe doesnt have time show show much. Its not like the dvd is porn and i dont think it shows too much details, but it would really help us.

abuayisha Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuayisha Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 21 October 2010 at 6:50am
	Well I'm sure your wife can explore these issues with her therapist and properly instruct you concerning details. Allah bless you for your efforts as this is very important.

jlyell Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Male Joined: 02 November 2010 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2	Post Options Post Reply Quote jlyell Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 02 November 2010 at 10:10am
	Shouldn't be a problem and would be a good thing to work out. Bless you my friend

rich Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 08 November 2010 Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote rich Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 08 November 2010 at 5:41am
	I think you have to look to your heart for the answers. I wish you both well and good luck

John S Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 16 February 2011 Status: Offline Points: 8	Post Options Post Reply Quote John S Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 07 March 2011 at 5:23pm
	If your intent is pure, and is for the betterment of your marriage, you should be on solid ground. Otherwise, if you find yourself watching it for the 'entertainment' you're watching it for the wrong reasons and at that point it's haram. Don't let your thoughts stray, and watch it with your wife present- just as she should be doing with you. What is in your heart is between you and Allah(swt), so make sure you're doing the right thing with this.