Family issue

May peace be upon you all, Alhamdoulilah.
I m writing because l have a problem that is been bothering me a lot. My parents were divorced when l was 1 and half year old, l never asked about the cause but one thing l know is my mother hates my dad. I was raised by my maternal grandmother,my mother was not around a lot and l don't blame her for that she was working all the time. My father did not involve much in my life. After l completed my 2 years college degree in Africa l joined my mother who was living in U.S to complete my studies. It was not easy to live with my mom in U.S she always said things that really heart me a lot ( you are ugly, you will never be successful, you are a looser just like your dad etc... She even accused me of willing to kill her which never crossed my mind) and l m her only child, l worked for her business to pay for my studies but she always reminded that l would be nothing without her anyway l can't tell everything. During all these times l never been disrespectful to her or left her side and l was 23 and that kept going on for 4 years . Alhamdoulilah l survived. Now one day she told if ever l become successful in life and help my dad she will never talk to me again well l didn't commit to that. Thank God l have finished school and landed a good job Alhamdoulilah. I have been working for 6 years and l can't save any money since because on every paycheck l have to give her almost half of my paycheck. If l don't do so my life becomes fitnah with her. After paying bills and rent l m almost left without nothing. I do not have a problem giving her money, but l m worrying about my future l got married about a year ago and l have to think about planning on having kids and all that. Furthermore l can't financillay help my dad and other members of my family. My mom has money more than l do but she acts like she doesn't if l give her one penny less than what she wants she just lost control and become the meanest person ever. Now l get to a point where l have to do something about this but l do not want all the drama involve so l m here looking for advice or dua to get her more reasonable about my financial situation without all the drama and madness. Sorry about the length.

Edited by Fatou - 19 May 2016 at 8:41pm

Thank you for the advice.

As for your mother she is your responsibility and door to jannah so you need to take care of her in all ways without causing undue harm of any kind to your mind family or finance

Edited by Sultana99 - 18 July 2016 at 2:36am

Thank you for the advice