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sarahrosecurry
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Posted: 30 April 2006 at 8:33am |
Due to health issues, I am not able to conceive children of my own. My husband and I would really like to have a child. My sister has told us that if we wanted a baby she would carry one for us. My question is, is this permissible in Islam? |
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amah
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Assalaamualaikum dear sister,
Sorry to hear about this, though i do not know your exact problem, but still I will pray for you, nothing is impossible for Allah , the Exalted! Regd. your question, I have read that it is not allowed. I'm trying to search where I read it.....so that i can give you proof. I hope we find the correct view on this. May Allah bless you with patience and reward you for it. take care. wassalaam.... |
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Allah is Sufficient as a Walee (Protector) and Allah is Sufficient as a Naseer (Helper).
(Surah An-Nisa, Chapter #4, Verse #45) |
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amah
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http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamO nline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=111950354693 8
http://63.175.194.25/index.php?ln=eng&ds=qa&lv=brows e&QR=22126&dgn=4 http://islam-usa.com/e113.htm Sister hope these help! May Allah make it easy for you! |
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Allah is Sufficient as a Walee (Protector) and Allah is Sufficient as a Naseer (Helper).
(Surah An-Nisa, Chapter #4, Verse #45) |
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herjihad
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Bismillah, Why not? The baby would have two mothers then. What a lucky kid! |
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Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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Abeer23
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Sister Sarah, I'm very sorry to hear about your difficulty. I pray that Allah makes what is better for you easy for you. Remember, the doctors aren't God. How old was Sarah when she gave birth to Issac again? Allah is powerful and he's merciful. In sha allah, don't lose hope in Allah's mercy sis. I will be sure to make dua for you With regards to your question. I have to agree with sister Amah. I know it to not be allowed. Salaam |
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herjihad
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Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.
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liyala
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Assalaam alaikum Sister Sarah, how do you understand it? what did you decide? |
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Mishmish
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Assalamu Alaikum: The points put forth by the Sheikh and the daleel he gives are not necessarily pertinent to this topic. Does this Sheikh believe that we should never have a pap smear or examination during pregnancy? What if we have genital cancer, or men have prostate or genital cancer? Are we only allowed to go to a doctor that is Mahrem? How would we even know if we had cancer if we are never allowed to expose our aura to anyone, including medical professionals? If the egg is from the mother and implanted with the sperm of the father, how would that bring the baby's lineage into question? Even if there were any doubt, DNA tests could take care of that. And it would not be the actual semen that would be put into her womb, but a fertilized egg, which is a different organism. Even his distaste for "renting the womb" can be answered if the surrogate is your sister, family member or friend willing to do this for no money, just out of love. This would also sort of insure that she would take good prenatal care of the baby. And saying there should be no third party in a marriage could almost be construed as then saying there should be no polygeny in Islam because there is a third, fourth, or maybe even fifth person in the marriage. I am not saying that I agree with surrogacy, I just do not see the legitimacy of this particular reasoning. Edited by Mishmish |
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