problem with mum

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   As salaamu'alikum,

I have a problem at home i feel as though my mother is treating me differently from my other brothers and sisters. Its getting to me. My mum  is always shouting at me and tells me to do things like clean up, i don't mind cleaning up but its the fact that she shouts at me like im in the army or something. Even my older brother realized that shes always shouting at me.

I always cry of anger and i know i shouldn't be angry at my mum (may Allah 4give me) but its the way i feel inside. i feel so bad because she is my mum and i cant even be in the same room as her.

 i know i should talk to her but i cant because when i do she walks away and tells me to do as i am told. I cant take it anymore. Or other times when i talk to her she shouts even more. I feel that sometimes its better to be silent but i don't know because i tried it but it does not work.

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Sweet Lady Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 18 June 2007 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote Sweet Lady Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: problem with mum Posted: 18 June 2007 at 4:52pm
	As salaamu'alikum, I have a problem at home i feel as though my mother is treating me differently from my other brothers and sisters. Its getting to me. My mum is always shouting at me and tells me to do things like clean up, i don't mind cleaning up but its the fact that she shouts at me like im in the army or something. Even my older brother realized that shes always shouting at me. I always cry of anger and i know i shouldn't be angry at my mum (may Allah 4give me) but its the way i feel inside. i feel so bad because she is my mum and i cant even be in the same room as her. i know i should talk to her but i cant because when i do she walks away and tells me to do as i am told. I cant take it anymore. Or other times when i talk to her she shouts even more. I feel that sometimes its better to be silent but i don't know because i tried it but it does not work.

abuayisha Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuayisha Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 18 June 2007 at 8:13pm
	Try taking the initiative to do what you know needs to be done without being asked. Even take it a step further and do other helpful chores not normally assigned. Be responsible and don�t complain. Try the above for one month and let us know if her behavior has changed.