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Brother Rami,

�Nadir you words which the sister deleted in another post can hardly be said to be a "mix up", any such repeat again and you run the risk of being banned.�

If you are referring to my lack of knowledge of exactly how to act with Muslim women, then I will gladly hold my hands up, & admit to defeat! I have been raised with secular values & am not 100% sure how to be around Muslim women. I certainly haven�t been helped (in learning more of this particular etiquette) by been completely separated from Muslim women, hence one of the reasons for my, been here.  

My confusion is in part due to the difference between what I have read in the Qur�an & Ahadith, & what actually occurs within the British society in which I live.

Before Nausheen posted the false accusation thing, I had already stated � �Hence I will gladly put down all thoughts of seeking a partner within this website, & treat the women here as purely Sisters in Faith.� As I realised my previous approach, no matter how careful or subtle, may cause problems. Hence I had already disassociated been here at this site, & my search for a wife (which I can no longer be bothered with).

I do hope Nausheen is not going to continue holding a grudge against me, because that would mean I am been punished for simply, not been born & raised Muslim. If it is not good enough that, I completely put down my search for a wife, than I might as well �give in�, here-now, because I cannot think of any thing else that I can do to appease the situation.

Assalaamu Alaikum

Sister Nausheen,

�Your note was written purely by you - you were not 'led on' to write it. Thus your insinuations that ur mistake is my fault is an allegation - and of a very serios nature. I hope you will not do this to anyone in future.�

If in my words you have perceived that, I have insinuated you have �led me on�, I am sorry, I�ve tried to make clear, as much as I can that this was not the case.

Please do not assume that the things I said the other day, were (entirely) a reaction to what you said in the PM (�there was no other explanation for your reaction�), there may be no other way for you to perceive my reaction, but you do not perceive me�..

As a moderator, I know you read over the posts, however it has become apparent that you have linked, things that I have said in different rooms/conversations/threads, together, when in fact there is was no link. I move from one place to another without carrying unnecessary baggage, & hence am able to separate, thoughts, feelings.  

�Just note one more point. Dont bother giving clarigfications to Br. Rami presuming he does not know anything. He has read your note.�

Now, you are taking me for a fool, I presumed Br. Rami would have read the posts. If you would be kind enough to expand your scope a little further, you might realise that from the upbringing/experiences I have had, the �note�, was an innocent & polite way to seek to get to know you further (it wasn't even done in privacy, ie a PM). It seems I can do no just.

Anyway I will go elsewhere seen as though you have no respect for me.

Nadir,a small note for you:

 She is too angry!...please keep the silence... shhhhh!...so dangerous,she has the key of the board...

Nadir wrote:

"For You Allah (SWT)

 & thanks to Suleyman for bringing me closer to You (SWT)

not

because I bore your eyes, but because I do not need to�.."

Es_Selam'un Aleykum ve Rahmetullahi ve Berakatuh,

 Jazak Allah Khair brother,everything will be more good for you insh'Allah...i really want to read your sincere words for being in more dialogue with you that i requested from you for changing your color...thank you very much for your concern and accuracy...Wa Salaam...